"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is she not attracted to me?

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ive been dateing this girl, and when i flirt with her she will say "euuu" yeah "euuu" like im a fly or something can you believe it "euuu" so i ask her about it and she said "i just didint know what to say" and im one of her first boyfriends so i belived her

but now shes like avoiding kissing me thats weird isint it? most girls are beging me to kiss them why should i have to keep asking about it. like when we talk on the phone i told her i want a hicky and anyway wtf its been like 3 weeks and no damn kiss shes makeing me fell ugly or something

no kissing no flirting damn shes driveing me away should i just go for the kiss? yeah im the man thats my job

but dont you think this girl is turning me afc what do you all think about this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Evil-Rom

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Is it not obvious?

Seriously, from that post, it sounds like she hates your guts.

Next.
 
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Sax God

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It sounds to me like she's ready to break up, but doesn't want to do it. By treating you like this, she's most likely trying to get you to break up with her.
 
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3 weeks no kiss? I'd bail after one day. Unless she's or I am sick. Never kiss when one of you is sick.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Smooth as Anything

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Who gives a ****?
 
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Who the f*ck says "euu" when someone flirts with them? She's obviously either not attracted to you or she's 10 years old. No kiss after 3 weeks? Asking for a hicky over the phone isn't a very seductive way of initiating that. Maybe she just moves slow, but overall she sounds like someone that wants to next you.
 
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If she's kissed you, and now she isn't. NEXT her. That is extrememly ridiculous.

I don't know, maybe she hates public affection but three weeks. Yeah, this probably won't work out. Get her on a date alone, and I mean nobody around so you can kiss her.

Sounds like she has lost any IL she had in you and doesn't want to break up with you cause she thinks she's gonna break your heart.
Puleeaaze, tell this chick to get lost and grow the fvck up.
 
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