"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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is she just a headcase? (milf, POF included)

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Hey fellow dj's I just want an opinion to this situation.

So i'm 23 years old and me and a 50 year old were talking on POF and ended up meeting. Went on a 1st date and all went well. A week later we planned our 2nd trip and we went. On the 2nd date we went to the casino had a good time and everything. We come home from the casino to her house. We had sex and as soon as we finished she started 2nd guessing me and her. She said dont get involved with her anymore and just feeling down on herself. I tried to talk to her but she just blocked me out. Now she says she isnt ready to talk to anybody. So i'm through with her now but still did she just use me for sex?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The simple answer is yes, move on. You got what you wanted and she got what she wanted. Don't waste time and energy overthinking these short term relationships.
 
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Women use men for sex all the time this one included.Shes haveing second thoughts about the sex and if you play your cards rite she will call you up for some more.So what did ya think?Some of them older women like to hump and have gotten pretty damn good at it!!
 
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Killer_Demo said:
So i'm 23 years old and me and a 50 year old were talking on POF and ended up meeting.
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kinda weird man. She clearly has issues. Don't be a white knight and try to save her from her feelings of distress. If she wants to get together and you want to bone some more, then do it. If she doesn't, then don't sweat it. Chances are she probably liked you and then got all scared afterward thinking you'd pump and dump her. Either way, not your problem.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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