"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is she just a headcase? (milf, POF included)

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Hey fellow dj's I just want an opinion to this situation.

So i'm 23 years old and me and a 50 year old were talking on POF and ended up meeting. Went on a 1st date and all went well. A week later we planned our 2nd trip and we went. On the 2nd date we went to the casino had a good time and everything. We come home from the casino to her house. We had sex and as soon as we finished she started 2nd guessing me and her. She said dont get involved with her anymore and just feeling down on herself. I tried to talk to her but she just blocked me out. Now she says she isnt ready to talk to anybody. So i'm through with her now but still did she just use me for sex?
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The simple answer is yes, move on. You got what you wanted and she got what she wanted. Don't waste time and energy overthinking these short term relationships.
 
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Women use men for sex all the time this one included.Shes haveing second thoughts about the sex and if you play your cards rite she will call you up for some more.So what did ya think?Some of them older women like to hump and have gotten pretty damn good at it!!
 
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Killer_Demo said:
So i'm 23 years old and me and a 50 year old were talking on POF and ended up meeting.
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kinda weird man. She clearly has issues. Don't be a white knight and try to save her from her feelings of distress. If she wants to get together and you want to bone some more, then do it. If she doesn't, then don't sweat it. Chances are she probably liked you and then got all scared afterward thinking you'd pump and dump her. Either way, not your problem.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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