"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is she intrested?

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Ok well my x gf who moved away like 2 years ago and i dident see her since she came back for the holidays so instantly im like we should catch up. So she needed to go shopping i needed to go shopping so she offered that we go together so jumped on went had a fun time then took her out for supper. and then i asked to go see a movie with me on christmas night and she said yes so is she intrested or does she see me as a friend im not really sure. i was gonna just kiss but shes suchh a nice girl so i dont want to mess things up i want to be friends with her at least. Oh btw shes out at school like 2 hours away form me so i wouldent see her that often with work and all.

so is she intrested in a relationship where we're more then friends or not?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i would say that she is def interested, you had a fun night together and she wants to go to the movies with you, whats in there that shows any sign of disinterest?
 
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i dunno man, u didnt descirbe your situation clearly enough, u have 2 go with your own judgment, watch her body language and everything, some guy wrote some post on this and u can find them in double your dating book, search for it and look for signs.
Only u can judge.
 
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I donno ive been trying to watch but the only thing ive knowised is she licks her lips when we talk and somtimes she will make eye contact. So i'm not really sure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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After the movie go to a pastry shop or a coffee shop and eat something.
Do the kiss test and if she is willing do a Kiss-close.
GL, tell us what happend.
BTW:Think positve.
 
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Well went to the movies with her last night then walked around the empty mall for awhile then i kissed her and she dident pull, push away so i htink things went well we where holding hands the rest of the night after that. Then she told me we need to hang out today ! :D so i guess thats gonna be like a second date kinda thing thanks guys you really helped me make a move i wasent 2 sure :D
 
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