"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IS she intrested in me?

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Hi Guys

Last night went to a strip clun near my place, there was one girl which i liked and called her and taked to her.

she is 7/10, i behaved quiete normal and little bit of funny, i told her i dont like sex and like romance more than sex:she too agreed here with me. she was cool and friendly and she did not left me untill i left the club, even though other guys are calling her most of the time.

i did not asked her number, neither email-id which is not allowed in the club.

she told me that i am a nice guy and also told me that she had a nice time talking to me while i was living.

My question here is "is she intrested in me?" if yes what should i do
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nope, she was working you for your money - You wont take my advice and you will go back - Then you'll eventually get her number, call her a few times a day, listen to her problems about other guys, and eventually come back to the board asking why it didn't work - READ THE DJ BIBLE AND THIS QUESTION WILL ANSWER ITSELF FOR YOU
 

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Griffman

Could you please tell me which part i should concentrate .
 

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You probably came off as too nice. Yeah, strippers do that, they talk to you and make you feel "special" or whatever just to hustle your money.

Try not to come off as a "nice guy." The word "nice guy" is almost insulting (that is, if you're interested in a woman/girl.)
 

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You're a nice guy who wants romance?

...then why the hell would you want to date a 7/10 stripper who probably screws a different guy every night, is an expert in lying for money and probably has more baggage and issues than you could ever know.


"she too agreed here with me" - this stripper would have agreed with you if you'd said you liked eating your own snot. Its an act, shes in money 'mode'.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Using my astute psychic powers I can tell you that this girl does love you! You will be married in 2 years and be having your first kid in 4. You will get a golden lab and name him rusty, and you will live in a white picket fence out in the country.

How do we know if she likes you or not?:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Monkey
You're a nice guy who wants romance?

...then why the hell would you want to date a 7/10 stripper who probably screws a different guy every night, is an expert in lying for money and probably has more baggage and issues than you could ever know.

I don't know if I'd immediately judge her and assume she bangs a different guy every night. However, I found his "romance' comment interesting because if he was really into 'romance' and doesn't like sex, what the fvck was he doing in some sleazy strip club?

I'm pretty certain that the stripper drew her own conclusions based off the fact that he was paying for a stripper to talk to him.
 

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You went to a strip-club and told her you weren't interested in sex, but romance? :D

Smooth playa :rolleyes:
 

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HAve you guys picked up a stripper any time Before.
IF yes , Tell me how did u did that.
 

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Originally posted by victor22
HAve you guys picked up a stripper any time Before.
IF yes , Tell me how did u did that.
If you live in the states then it's simple. YOU DON'T! Don't deal with strippers, its a bad situation, they're like the ninjas of entertainment. They'll have you thinking one thing and be totally leading you in another direction.

Many stippers are very unstable, and handling them requires you to be very unscrupulous, which from your post I can tell is not in your persona.

My advice, move on and forget about this stripper fantasy stuff. Especially since you want romance and not sex. Look else where, the strip club is not the place too meet girls who want to be romanced.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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