"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ilikecharlene

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this woman at work makes small talk a lot with me, and last week stopped me in the corridor and put her hand on my shoulder. i travel from office to office, and even asked why she didn't see my at my usual home base.

is she into me? there is a fine line between friendliness and flirtation as women go, so what can be read into this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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btownbuck2012

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If you have to come on a website and ask a bunch of strangers whether or not this girl is into you, then YES SHE IS INTO YOU.

trust your GUT dude. Anytime you start wondering to yourself "i wonder if she likes me?" the answer is almost ALWAYS yes. However, it won't stay that way for long unless you make a move
 
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Ask her out (coffee date), it will remove all doubt.
 
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