Hm, a few questions.
Are you interested in her?
Are you okay at the prospect of her dating other guys while you sit by and watch?
Is a friendship ALL you want, or are you sitting by waiting for her to fall hopelessly in love with you?
Guy, you don't have the answer those questions, but my point is, you are interested in her because you came to this site and decided to post about her and that's the end of it.
Now the real question is.
Where do you go from here?
Well first off Oni, there is a sweet pretty girl that you are interested in, but you aren't so sure if she's interested in you. So, you have a billion excuses as to just not do anything about it. And being afraid to get played by her? Come on man, that should be the least of your worries. That's all mental. In fact, I would consider you being played right now by the way you are responding.
Now, here's the simple question.
Are you interested in her as more than a friend?
IF YOU ARE, and don't think that you would rather be the guy that goes to her all girls sleepovers than her BOYFRIEND, then you have to make a major decision.
To make my move or not make my move.
The truth is, when most guys look to girls, they'll disguise their real feelings behind their shadow of doubt and say that there is a friendship at stake. Well, tell me this.
Would you rather muster up the balls to make a move or would you rather watch the next jerk who actually did have the balls to make the move make out with her in the hall everyday?
The fact is, you're interested in her, and that is ALL that matters. You can't have it all unless you risk losing it all. Already, you are worrying too much about a girl thinks. Now, if she is a really REALLY good friend to you, then I advise you move on and find other women. But if you want her, then be a man, step up to the plate, and TAKE HER.
Here's the simple process. You probably have her number already. Call her up, say,
"Hey you, I'm free Thursday night, we're going out, pick you up at 7."
And let that be the end of it. Those simple lines displays a level of confidence that attracts all women. You want something, you took it, you offered a time and you offered the ride. You can add in an activity that is in your area, but it doesn't matter, what is important is HOW SHE RESPONDS.
If she is definitely interested, she will say yes right off the bat. Afterall, a date with you is certainly more exciting than the regular Thursday night study session or whatever it is she does. Now if she is truely busy, but is interested, then she will offer you another date. YOU WOULD ONLY DO THE SAME. Put yourself in her shoes for a while. Why would you possibly say "No?" BECAUSE YOU AREN'T INTERETED. And that's the only reason.
Muster it up and do it. Now if the date goes well, at the end of the night, KISS HER. For godsakes, don't ask, just kiss her. If she pushes you away, then you know that it wasn't meant to be and you can move on like it was nothing. You lose nothing, you should regret nothing. You needed to know something, and you went to find out.
So many people tell you that it is better to do something and fail than to regret never doing it at all.
Those people were right.
