"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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is she interested?

kiwilad24

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ive been interested in this girl my class for a while now but i dont know if she is interested in me, we exchange smiles across the room every time we make eye contact and we talk all the time. any tips on finding out if she diggs me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kiwilad24 said:
we exchange smiles across the room every time we make eye contact and we talk all the time.
Dude...you know the answer to this...LOL :D You have to STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF AND TRUSTING YOUR GUT.... Yeah SHE LIKES YOU, you just said it. Don't OVERANALYZE THE SITUATION...keep it simple....she likes you, you take her out...simple, good luck

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These are one of the 100's of subtle body languages girls do to show interest. Find out everything in this book. http://www.change-yourself.com/index.html

Short answer, Yes shes diggin you, now be a real man, get the book, then with the knowledge youve learned DONT take her out to the movies cuz thats what morons from sosuave do on the first date, and do whats already understood. Ya Dig?
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just assume she is chat to her, get her number or hang out at a party, push-pull. build attraction. simple. but most likely she is if she is giving you attention.
 

tsmith2334

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kiwilad24 said:
any tips on finding out if she diggs me?
kino. start touching her casually to emphasize things. see if she ever does it back. and if you see her outside of class, alcohol works wonders
 
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