"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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is she interested or not?

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liqourpoker

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so went on a great 1st date with this girl I met out at a barbeque, lasted about 4hrs she texted me had a great time tonight! then we set up another date 2days later at a bar pretty much didn't go the best. she brought 2 friends a guy and her girlfriend and I met my 2 friends who were going out to that bar. The first fifteen minutes went well we flirted for a bit then I started bull****ting with this random bar guy about sports for about 15mins ignoring her by accident so she kinda started talking to my friend anyway pretty much didnt even really talk to her at the end I actually walked away from her and my friend and sat at a stool by myself and she just looked at me and didnt come over to even say whats up...so I try hanging with her a couple days later and she texts me that day saying sorry cant make it today, thought it was a good sign though that she texted me first saying she couldnt make it, I was thinking if she wasnt interested at all she wouldnt of even texted me first she would of just ignored me? so then I wait like 4more days and text her again we flirt a little bit then I ask her again when she free and she's like "well my family is coming up this weekend ill let you know when im free ;) " so its been like 5days and she hasnt contacted me to let me know she I call her or is this her sign she isnt interested?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Next. You sorta ****ed up on the date man. You should've made it a 1 on 1 date and established some rapport with her. Learn her interests, tell stories, and all those sorts of things.
 
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she isn't interested. go NC. let her ask you out again till then radio silence
 
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