"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is she interested or not?

vivalarebellion

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Well, I have this girl in my class, I'd rank her around an 8.7, with a pretty face and amazing body. The thing is, I've known her for a long time. When I'm standing around, even with a lot of space around me, she comes and bumps into me, and leans against me and pushes me with her hips and things along those lines. When I tease her she playfully slaps my arm, and pushes and prods me when I'm not paying attention to her. She makes me walk with her between certain classes. (We have quite literally the same schedule.) She came up to me today and asked me if I'm coming to her soccer game tomorrow.

I'd take those things as signs of interest...but, then at other times she'll ignore me, or walk away from me. Sometimes she just leaves to talk to another guy, and generally won't hang out with me when she's around her friends.

So, what's up? Am I just overthinking it? Or looking too deeply into the way she acts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crazy Asian

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she thinks you're "ok", but not great.
for example, when i'm around girls that are 6's, i talk to them and have fun with them, but when hotter girls are around, i ignore the less attractive ones.
it's just basically how high your value to her.
 
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