"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is she interested or an i just wasting time?

Smok1nAce

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so over the last 3 months ive been on 4 dates with a HB7, she 26 from a rough neighborhood with no car, dead end job and a bad attitude, (never towards me, but i can tell she has one). i will call her up once a month for drinks and she always replies and say yes, ive tried to kiss her last time we meet and she said no.

and i said, you want to be freinds, and she, says thats the vibe i was getting you only call me once in a blue moon, im used to talking to me bf all the time.

then i text her the next day to see if she wants to hang out and she replies
"Im with my coworkers hun"

the only reason im even seeing this girl is because i have nothing else going on right now and she cheap and someone to lay with. my point is am i wasting my time?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DiegoSantori

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Smok1nAce said:
the only reason im even seeing this girl is because i have nothing else going on right now
Forget her and focus on yourself.
 

Obsidian

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My main point of advice would be that you need to kino a girl before you kiss her.

From that text, she doesn't sound real interested, but hard to say for sure. I personally would find someone better.
 

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Smok1nAce said:
the only reason im even seeing this girl is because i have nothing else going on right now and she cheap and someone to lay with.
Not gonna lie, that's pretty pathetic. Sorry but you need to hear that. Also this girl has low IL at best, if you ever manage to get a lay out of her it's not going to be easy.

Smok1nAce said:
ive tried to kiss her last time we meet and she said no.
During the 4th date you tried to kiss her, she said no, and that was that? Ok, at the very least she's not romantically interested in you... at worst, she doesn't even like you and is just using you for attention and free food/drinks. That entire spectrum of possibilities, is garbage. I would say you are wasting your time, but apparently your time isn't valuable so... I guess suffice to say, this should be a waste of your time.
 

Smok1nAce

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Yewki said:
Not gonna lie, that's pretty pathetic. Sorry but you need to hear that. Also this girl has low IL at best, if you ever manage to get a lay out of her it's not going to be easy.



During the 4th date you tried to kiss her, she said no, and that was that? Ok, at the very least she's not romantically interested in you... at worst, she doesn't even like you and is just using you for attention and free food/drinks. That entire spectrum of possibilities, is garbage. I would say you are wasting your time, but apparently your time isn't valuable so... I guess suffice to say, this should be a waste of your time.
your right man
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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