"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is she interested or an i just wasting time?

Smok1nAce

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so over the last 3 months ive been on 4 dates with a HB7, she 26 from a rough neighborhood with no car, dead end job and a bad attitude, (never towards me, but i can tell she has one). i will call her up once a month for drinks and she always replies and say yes, ive tried to kiss her last time we meet and she said no.

and i said, you want to be freinds, and she, says thats the vibe i was getting you only call me once in a blue moon, im used to talking to me bf all the time.

then i text her the next day to see if she wants to hang out and she replies
"Im with my coworkers hun"

the only reason im even seeing this girl is because i have nothing else going on right now and she cheap and someone to lay with. my point is am i wasting my time?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DiegoSantori

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Smok1nAce said:
the only reason im even seeing this girl is because i have nothing else going on right now
Forget her and focus on yourself.
 

Obsidian

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My main point of advice would be that you need to kino a girl before you kiss her.

From that text, she doesn't sound real interested, but hard to say for sure. I personally would find someone better.
 

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Smok1nAce said:
the only reason im even seeing this girl is because i have nothing else going on right now and she cheap and someone to lay with.
Not gonna lie, that's pretty pathetic. Sorry but you need to hear that. Also this girl has low IL at best, if you ever manage to get a lay out of her it's not going to be easy.

Smok1nAce said:
ive tried to kiss her last time we meet and she said no.
During the 4th date you tried to kiss her, she said no, and that was that? Ok, at the very least she's not romantically interested in you... at worst, she doesn't even like you and is just using you for attention and free food/drinks. That entire spectrum of possibilities, is garbage. I would say you are wasting your time, but apparently your time isn't valuable so... I guess suffice to say, this should be a waste of your time.
 

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Yewki said:
Not gonna lie, that's pretty pathetic. Sorry but you need to hear that. Also this girl has low IL at best, if you ever manage to get a lay out of her it's not going to be easy.



During the 4th date you tried to kiss her, she said no, and that was that? Ok, at the very least she's not romantically interested in you... at worst, she doesn't even like you and is just using you for attention and free food/drinks. That entire spectrum of possibilities, is garbage. I would say you are wasting your time, but apparently your time isn't valuable so... I guess suffice to say, this should be a waste of your time.
your right man
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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