Is she interested in me?

[stevenseagal]

Hey all. I'm new to this forum and have one question I need answered right now. I want to know if my girlfriend of 10 months is losing interest in me. I've asked her if it's so she quickly said no. But since the first date with her, she has never ever called me, I mean never. She's a shy one and seems more comfortable communicating through email, txt messages. I only see her once a week and when I go out with her she is just too quiet, I can't get her to really have a conversation with her without it being awkward. I told her to not feel like this around me several times and she keeps on doing it. I'm always the one calling her and initiating intimacy. She likes the intimacy but seems to shy to initiate it herself. So lately I've been feeling like she's been annoyed by me always calling her. What should I do to make her want me more?

 

[J Roc]

why would you start a relationship with a girl like this?

 

[Infamous_Wolf]

I want to know if my girlfriend of 10 months is losing interest in me. I've asked her if it's so she quickly said no.

First thing you need to know, Women will straight up lie to your face about things like this. If you're giving her a bunch of free attention, she will take advantage of the situation as long as possible. I dated my first girl friend for a year and a half. She cheated on me with 5 different guys in the last 9 months, and lied straight to my face for years afterwards about her infidelity. This was back when I was a super wuss. I'm so glad I'm not that person anymore.

Is she interested in me?

Don't you ever ever ever ever ask yourself this question again. I'm dead serious. what she thinks about you is totally and completely irrelevant. You should only worry about if you are interested in her. That said, if you are still interested in this girl, the very first thing you need to do is stop contacting her at all. she is used to your attention and she'll probably freak out when you do. pull back from the relationship and she if she follows. if she lets you go, then be glad. you just saved yourself possible years of wasted time investing in a relationship that was a farce since it's inception.