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Is she interested - complicated! Interesting though...

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Hey guys,

Right im gonna cut this real short as it's - potentially - a long story!

Went out last night with friends to a bar. Having a laugh, drinking etc.

Girl i like (HB9-know her for nearly a year) is out with her friend whos also a good mate.

I shifted/snogged/frenched HB9 for a few weeks last Christmas/New Years. Was a total AFC back then and got real upset over the fact that she didnt want anything more at the time.

Then i reformed into a DJ and since then shes been showing more interest.

EXAMPLE:
Went to a party thing back in august and she was there. i went on the floor to dance and she came up to me looked me straight in the eyes and said "Do you want to kiss me?" I duly obliged (maybe a bit AFC).

Another time i was in a club and she was there, she was sitting beside me and put her head on my shoulder saying she was tired etc. I ended up kiss closing her and we were together for the rest of the time in the club.

Anyway last night i was out and she came over to me with her mate, hy knew id be in there but i didnt bother go looking for them - so they came to me! :) When she was approaching me i kinda pretended to look away and pretend i didnt see her. She used kino and mad eoput that she was upset that i was ignoreing her in a joking kind of way.

So we're talking and shes fairly close to me and im standing in the middle of the group (id say im one of the leaders as everyone asks me "Silverwex where we heading after this?"). And i tell her to back off a bit as shes too close to me. She then asks me where im heading after and i say the mooneys probably (a local club). She asks me to go with her to the stores (another club) and i say no coz u have to pay to get in. She then basically pleads with me to go and im like "maybe ill see". she leaves and i stay on with the lads for another drink.

We end up paying 10euro to get into the stores (all the lads wanted to go). I dont have any money left so i go up to HB9 and say "Hey i paid e10 to get in here! Buy me a drink!" and shes like "ok". That suprised me and i did feel a little guilty about it - but hey!

We talk and chill and dance during the night. I get a bit jealous when i see her talking to another fella (have to work on this AFC trait).

Coming up to the end of the night she seems a little distracted. Dunno why but anyway she leaves with her mate after hugging me and i tell her ill see her at my bonfire next friday for halloween. I have a bet that she wont come but she insists that she will. Slagged her off over it by saying we'll all be out in a field and itll be cold and rough and she, being a goody goody, wont like it.

Anyway what do u think i should do here? And is there an interest level? And is it high or not? Thanks guys. Sorry about the long thread!

Oh yeah and any good plans for a bonfire on halloween, dont have much money at the moment so i have to come up with something cheap and cool! :)
 

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Originally posted by silverwex

EXAMPLE:
Went to a party thing back in august and she was there. i went on the floor to dance and she came up to me looked me straight in the eyes and said "Do you want to kiss me?" I duly obliged (maybe a bit AFC).

TRANSLATION: Do you want to f**k?


Another time i was in a club and she was there, she was sitting beside me and put her head on my shoulder saying she was tired etc. I ended up kiss closing her and we were together for the rest of the time in the club.

TRANSLATION: I want to go home with you and f**k.



Anyway last night i was out and she came over to me with her mate, hy knew id be in there but i didnt bother go looking for them - so they came to me! :) When she was approaching me i kinda pretended to look away and pretend i didnt see her. She used kino and mad eoput that she was upset that i was ignoreing her in a joking kind of way.

TRANSLATION: Come on! Why won't you f**k me, dammit?


So we're talking and shes fairly close to me and im standing in the middle of the group (id say im one of the leaders as everyone asks me "Silverwex where we heading after this?"). And i tell her to back off a bit as shes too close to me. She then asks me where im heading after and i say the mooneys probably (a local club). She asks me to go with her to the stores (another club) and i say no coz u have to pay to get in. She then basically pleads with me to go and im like "maybe ill see". she leaves and i stay on with the lads for another drink.

TRANSLATION: Pleeeease f**k me!

We end up paying 10euro to get into the stores (all the lads wanted to go). I dont have any money left so i go up to HB9 and say "Hey i paid e10 to get in here! Buy me a drink!" and shes like "ok". That suprised me and i did feel a little guilty about it - but hey!

TRANSLATION: I don't know why I'm buying you this, you won't f**k me. :mad:

We talk and chill and dance during the night. I get a bit jealous when i see her talking to another fella (have to work on this AFC trait).

TRANSLATION: Ohh...NOW you wanna f**k me, when you see me with another guy. :rolleyes:

Coming up to the end of the night she seems a little distracted. Dunno why but anyway she leaves with her mate after hugging me and i tell her ill see her at my bonfire next friday for halloween. I have a bet that she wont come but she insists that she will. Slagged her off over it by saying we'll all be out in a field and itll be cold and rough and she, being a goody goody, wont like it.

TRANSLATION: I don't mind hanging out with you, but I need to find a man who's willing to f**k me. Sorry. :(

Anyway what do u think i should do here? And is there an interest level? And is it high or not? Thanks guys. Sorry about the long thread!
The window only stays open for so long. Whether yours is still open or not, I can't say. But if she gets horny again, ISOLATE her and CLOSE THE DEAL.
 

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Hey man thanks for replying.

God i made some spelling mistakes in that post!

Anyway, shes not that type of girl. Shes one of those nice girls who probably doesnt even know what fuccing is! Nah seriously, i doubt shes a slut - actually i know shes not one.

Any tips for the bonfire thing? e.g. how do i close her that night?
 

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I think shes definately interested dude, make a move during the bonfire, unless forget it.
 

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Yeah think you're right deeman. Its a tricky situation tho man, she doesnt seem to want a relationship but shes still seems interested!?

What do you make of that?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I meet them occasionally. Sometimes they're 'sunshine girls' ie all flirty and friendly but mad, bad and dangerous to know underneath, but sometimes they're just natural flirts, outgoing and friendly who don't want to upset the countless men who chase them.
 

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Yeah she seems the friendly flirty type, but she also seems to be kinda interested. Ive never seen her getting with any other fella when i see her out, thats not to say that she doesnt.
 

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That's a very good sign - hopeless flirts and sunshine girls will flirt with everyone. I'd say go for it, what have you got to lose? Don't worry too much about what she might be thinking, concentrate on what YOU want, push the envelope and if you get turned down, there's always the 'next' button!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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