Is she interested 50000?

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

The 50000th time this was asked.

Most of you read my threads about the cheerleader...

history!... again...:

I've known her for a few months... she already knows I'm too shy around her... she knows I broke up with my g/f a week after I met her, and she knows it was for her... she gave me plenty chances to overcome my shyness... she almost gave up on me once for my shyness, but gave me another chance... she eventually DID give up on me about 3 weeks ago because I was quiet... AFTER she gave up on me, I found this site, and realized she REALLY did like me a lot, AT FIRST.


So we all know she most likely doesn't like me AS MUCH AS SHE USED TO... but I want to keep asking her to hangout until I know for a fact she isn't interested... or if she really likes me and is playing hard to get -- to prove that I'm not a Mr. Nice Guy who's too shy... like I tried not to be since I fou7nd this site (no offense to the guy who has this name on the forum).

I talked to her today...

Was pretty much...

Me: blah blah... what time is your thing tomorrow?

Her: you aren't going anymore... I found out it's about 2 hours away

Me: oh... kay...

Her: Oh, and the jacket you asked for back... you can come by tomorrow and pick it up. What time is good for you?

(I'm trying to get my jacket back, and cut the image of her out of my head... it's too painful to know she liked me and I never did anything about it.)

Me: What time is good for YOU

Her: It doesn't matter

Me: Well if you want, just leave it on your porch and I'll come by and pick it up, if you aren't going to be there.

Her: Okay

Me: I have your shirt also, I'll leave it on the porch also if you want.

Her: Okay

Me: Okay I'll come by around 5

Her: Actually, I'll be at my ***** house (the girl who introduced me and her... who is MY friend also... and got things going for us) come by here instead and pick it up at her house.

Me: I'll call you when I'm on my way







Pretty much... it wasn' t one of our "you are so amazing, and I really really like you so so much"-online convos we used to have when we talked about anything that came to our minds. I was being bitter for our current situation... and she wasn't sounding interested anymore.

What got me was... when she said "come by my friends house so i can give it to you"... instead of when i said "leave it at your door and ill pick it up". Could that mean she want's to see me, or she wants her shirt safe (which isn't really a great shirt... just one of her cheercamp shirts)?... w/e... what do you all think?

 

[Vincent]

You're over analyzing.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Not analyzing what i should do... jsut analyzing if i should wait for school girls to come... or to keep going/trying with this girl... you never read my post did you...?

 

[Vincent]

Yes I did, and you're over analyzing the situation. You just need to next her and realize you missed the boat.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

I guess your right... but since the day i see her is tomorrow. i'll next her if it doesn't do to well. but i won't burn bridges of course

 

[Zod]

Originally posted by MikeS
Me: What time is good for YOU

Her: It doesn't matter

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Oh my.

Really REALLY bad thing to say if you ever wanted to try to salvage this.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Re: Re: Is she interested 50000?

Originally posted by Zod
Oh my.

Really REALLY bad thing to say if you ever wanted to try to salvage this.

i said that because.... its her house im going to... im not going to say... be ready by 5 or im not coming by to pick up my own jacket from you

 

[Zod]

That isn't the point, you should have picked a time that works for you not her.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

I did, my time was when i told her to pick... you see... if she asks me to pick a time.. she wants me to... but i jsut tell her to do it instead... im not saying "pick whenever you want, darling, dear, loveydovey. because i love you that much!"

im jsut saying... "whatever... just say when.. ill call you when im on the way."

 

[Zod]

What you did was still wrong.

You aren't being decisive, you aren't taking charge.

Sure it could be worse, but it still isn't good.

You need to know what you want, not let someone else decide for you. Which was what you were doing, and women see this in a negative way.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

I know it was wrong when I was talking to her. Just saying it wasn't as bad as everyone made it seem.