"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is she hot or not from www.hotornot.com

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Should I date this chick or is this not a worthy question for all you Don Juans out there.

This is just a poll and about what others think. I have already made up my mind so just let me know.

later



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Happy Now?? to all the critics out there and by the way this is not a form of braging at all. I just wanted some people opinions is that too much to ask for damn.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Juan and only

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first of all. shut up.

what a stupid question. no one can decide for you - it's YOUR decision..do YOU find her attractive? if you do and you want to date her then go for it...I mean, nobody can say what kind of chick you like or whether you should date them or not.

...and yes I think she's hot.

look, if you wanted us to congratulate you on seducing this girl then just tell your story and we'll give you a virtual high five. none of this ****.


stop being so afc and MAKE YOU OWN DECISIONS....use your brain
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oh..you already said you've made up your mind. in that case good stuff..I'm too tired to read properly..leave me alone :eek:

still good advice though
 
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Originally posted by The Juan and only
first of all. shut up.

what a stupid question. no one can decide for you - it's YOUR decision..do YOU find her attractive?
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yea, what if we all said "hell no! that's gross"
 
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Wow you're an idiot for two pretty good reasons.

1) why would you ask anyone of us random strangers if you shoud date a girl? The best you could hope for would be the retorocal "No you shouldn't! She's no good for you! I'll taker her off your hands:D " or the like.

2) like egoist said you pased her SN on a public forum known for it's trolls and various other internet deviants so TONS of people are going to IM her and one of them might give her the link to THIS EXACT THREAD and theres better then average odds that that isn't going to go over that well.

How many times do you get hit in the head playing goalie? You might want to go to a doctor to see if your brain damage is perminante.
 
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Dude,
She's hot, she's showing her half-naked body on the internet for a total stranger.... SCORE!!!!!!!!
In my opinion, you should try to go out and meet some chicks in the flesh instead. Don't get me wrong, the internet's great, but I think that a live girl is much better than a virtual one.



"To do what ought to be done, but would not have been done unless I did it, I thought to be my duty." -Robert Morrison
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why would you post this? You said you had already made up your mind. This is bragging. You are qualifying yourself to this board..that's not very DJ.


And would I've date her? I'd do a hell of a lot more than that :D


Good luck.
 
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There are tons of these threads. One person pastes a link to a bird and ask if they would date her. Then everyone says yes until one guy starts saying to make your own decisions.

Everytime

PS id shag her, she also got a nice pair of tits.
 
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