Is she going to break up with me? trust my gut?

[t510]

There's a girl I've been seeing. Lately her interest has clearly dropped.
She doesn't text as much, talking about how we're both so busy etc. To give her credit, I have cancelled on her and said no to her for a lot of things....
So Our last call was bad... it seemed like I was being an inconvenience by calling her. So anyways, I stopped calling and texting and it's probably been a week without talking -- Probably the longest in 6 months. What would you do?:rock:

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Sounds like it

 

[t510]

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[Renegade357]

There's a girl I've been seeing. Lately her interest has clearly dropped.
She doesn't text as much, talking about how we're both so busy etc. To give her credit, I have cancelled on her and said no to her for a lot of things....
So Our last call was bad... it seemed like I was being an inconvenience by calling her. So anyways, I stopped calling and texting and it's probably been a week without talking -- Probably the longest in 6 months. What would you do?:rock:

Sounds bad but here's what you do. Treat her like a plate dude. Ask her out once per week and only once per week until her interest level comes back up and she starts asking you out again. When you're initiating contact with her you're asking her out. That's it. If she doesn't answer leave a voice mail and don't call her back until she returns your call.

It'll work itself out naturally that way.

Oh, one more thing. Stop texting her back and forth as chit chat all day. That's what girls do. Not men who value their time.

Good luck.

 

[Skyline]

Probably.

It seems like you were acting like a needy insecure b*tch those 6 months so now shes backing off. Dont contact her unless she talks to you at this point, an at the same time work on youreself to not be so co dependent. Get a hobby.

Plus, why are you texting? Texting/calling with the intention of just to "talk" kills relationship. Phone = setup dates.

Its a 50/50 so i would advise you to spin a few plates just in case. Dont spin them too fast or they'll bump into hers. Just enough to get it moving unnoticed.