Is she getting interested again?

[usernamedox11]

Apple, you started out with a fair enough comment, but now you're going in a direction that is a bit extreme and naieve.



If a woman is a s!ut, wh@re, only been with a few guys, or a complete virgin - that does not change what's in their DNA.

It does not change that tension and attraction create the best sex. "Love" or "feelings" can only carry a relationship for a short while....

Not sure what you mean here.

There's nothing to care about if you don't let her drop her bullsh!t on you.

Not sure what you mean here? She did drop "bullish!t" on you, and you should be glad she did because it showed you she's a slut

You've never seen that old man who doesn't take any of the nagging his wife does serious? He makes a joke out of it.... Yet, they've lived together and been happily married for 60 years? And even when his wife is ranting and raving about what an @sshole is he is while she cooks his dinner, you can almost sense the smile under her words?

There is a difference between nagging and flirting with another guy.

Well, you can let women spew their garbage and take it serious and judge her only by that. That defintely is an alternative; but that most likely will end up with you being the frustrated one in the relationship.

Why would you be frustrated for finding out the girl is a slut and moving on? I'd be more frustrated knowing I'm tolerating being with a slut who flirts with other guys...

Or you can date a masculine woman. They normally have a firm grasp on being logical and not allowing their emotions to change with each blink. That's another alternative.

But largely, getting into a democratic relationship and expecting the result to be fair... is a recipe for a dead relationship.

I don't know why you brought this up?

You're reaching here. You can't care about what doesn't exist.

You seem to care...

Regret sabotaging the relationship? Women? Regret? Lol, I'm dealing with the reality of women and you're dealing with some fairy tale here...

Yes, if you're a man of value and if they felt like they lost out on you. Cousin has been talking about the one she let get away for years.

You... Listen to what women say too much.

Why a woman says she left her ex, is rarely the real reason.

I don't listen to what woman say too much, but I believe her. If you're in a relationship with a girl and you never show that you give any kind of sh!t about the relationship or what she does, she's leaving, especially when all her friends are talking about how "great" their boyfriends are.

 

[bukowski_merit]

I believe the only thing you should be angry with yourself about is GIVING a sh!t about "messing up" in the first place.

This will probably never change about me. I still look at things i did 12 years ago and think about what i could have done different.


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Apple, it started as a decent enough conversation, but it's pretty clear to me that we have different experience and different views on the nature of women.

All I'll do is clarify that when I say something doesn't exist - I mean - it doesn't exist unless you let her drop it on you (in my case - i let her drop this nonsense on me). You let a woman talk long enough - she's going to say something you don't like.

 

[usernamedox11]

Apple, it started as a decent enough conversation, but it's pretty clear to me that we have different experience and different views on the nature of women.

All I'll do is clarify that when I say something doesn't exist - I mean - it doesn't exist unless you let her drop it on you (in my case - i let her drop this nonsense on me). You let a woman talk long enough - she's going to say something you don't like.

No worries man. You seem like a good guy. Just saying you shouldn't sweat losing out on that slut. You deserve better than that.