Is She Gaming Me Back?

[RPiller2018]

I just read The Rational Male about a month ago (twice). It accurately explains my past frustrations in dating. I'm freshly red pill aware.

Recently, I got a girl's number and we started texting. She would respond to my texts immediately. 5 minutes or less. Even if I waited several hours or a day, her responses would still be immediate.

We got together once. At the end, she told me to let her know when I wanted to do it again. I said "I will." The day after, she liked all of my Facebook posts. I was busy the next few days with work and going out on other dates. It ended up being about 4 days before I got back in touch with her. Now, her responses are extremely slow.

I'm wondering if I "ruined the momentum" so to speak by waiting 4 days to get back in touch wit her.

Anyone have any wisdom about a situation like this?

 

[sazc]

In reference to what @Espi said, there's a fine line between being "busy" and being insulting.

If you want to know where she stands, ask her out again. Just make sure it is for a specific date/time in order to gauge her interest level.

 

[wifehunter]

"Is She Gaming Me Back?"
count on it.

 

[czichealh]

She is just busting your confidence just to see how desperate you will become..ask her if she is bored at texting..lets hang out then..set date

 

[BeExcellent]

I mean, she's been responsive and you've gone radio silent for 4 days.

What on Earth did you expect? Reverse the situation. Would you appreciate that sort of treatment? No. You'd think Gee, she doesn't like me very much. Guess what she thinks?

So next and try again. This one is baked and you are unlikely to revive it.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Personally, I would shoot her a text saying that your time hasn't been your own in the past few days and you've been rallying to catch up. And then, "Let's get together this weekend."

If her IL is sufficient, all will be forgiven.

 

[guru1000]

"Hey! Had a great time with you the other night. Let's do it again this Friday, 8pm if you're free."

Simple. No problem here.

 

[btownbuck2012]

There's a VERY thin line between ignoring them and insulting them.

Lol, the reason I ignore them in the first place is because they've insulted me or acted bratty. Total narcissism on their part to get upset you with for being upset with them in the first place. NEXT.