"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is she embarassed?

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jeffthechef

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He's one of the top 10 possibly top 5 players in his sport...he's been on articles published locally and on espn...he's a nice guy...idk if he's attractive or anything yet she doesnt have "in a relationship" on her facebook..no pictures of him and her..no indication whatsoever that they're together..why? i'm hoping one of you experienced dj's might have some insight as to why she isn't very public about them...the last time she had a bf her friends kept talking about him on facebook..and he wasn't even famous..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OH GOD WHO THE HELL CARES!?

F*CK FACEBOOK. Modern people far over-rely on it. So what if she isn't 'in relationship' on Facebook?
 
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yea bro, maybe she doesn't update her facebook?

Facebook isn't whats going on in REALITY. Hell I could put my relationship status right now to single and looking, does that mean I broke up with my gf right there? No, of course not.

But I bet if I did and I never signed in for a week or two, tons and tons of people would be like "omg, you guys broke up? thats so sad."



...and why the hell do you care if shes embarrassed about him or not?
 
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