"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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londonzen

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ok theres 2 girls who works in the mcds near my workplace
1 hb9 turkish beautiful girl who works there rarely.but turns heads,she always gives me looks and 1 time my friend tried it with her(she was having none of it and cut him off mid sentence)

2 hb7 nice enough girl(a little strange) quite quiet, well becoz she always seemed so stony i tryed striking up convo with her to get to the other but she seemed interested.(gives me free apple pies and that)
so we talk often (small talk) while shes at work but her colleagues keep calling her and staring so she still kind of stony at work but.
1 day she was on the bus(in her own clothes looks do able) sittin, i got on for 1 stop and she stood up and came over to me and starts playfull teasing and what not about my lazy ness. but im thinking about the turkish 1 still

i see her at her work a few weeks later and when i walk in shes like
"oh im glad you came today" then she leaves the same time as me and we wait at the bustop im thinking i should put it on her i try to talk to her but she seems quite boring and complains about work and wont let me get a word in.
anyway i ask where shes from and tell her she has a cute accent she tells me her mum is from russia her dads from turkey and shes was born and raised in moscow then she comes out with "me and my dad have very bad past"
this statement sends shivers down my spine as i think she doesnt know me that well why would you tell me that i aint no save-a-ho.
i also am left confused as to why a girl who fancies me and thinks i fancy her
would have me alone and just talk nonsence either shes tryna put me off nicely or shes nuts
anyway this convo kind of put me off of her and ive been polite but dont talk much (she prob thinks im playin hard to get)

any way today i go there for the first time in months and she corners me and we get talkin and her expression seems to be what happened? as she is at my table for like 5 mins when she should be working. she says that something about her mum coming so i ask where her mum is and she goes "did you forget" wat i told you (bear in mind this was like early may she told me) she basically says shes lives alone and is bored.
she keeps asking is everything ok with me?(in a do you want to ask me anything way)

now basically my antennaes are saying stay well clear but my d1k is saying sex her and next but i can tell she wants alot more now like i say she seems nice and i dont wanna hurt her(plus shes strange) by hittin and splittin

what do you guys think
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not even gonna read your post. But chances are she is. lol
 

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Okay... tell me WHY you think she's "crazy"???

It seems to me a comment like that is meant to imply she doesn't want another man to hurt her.
 

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pLaYtHiNg said:
Okay... tell me WHY you think she's "crazy"???

It seems to me a comment like that is meant to imply she doesn't want another man to hurt her.
well like i said shes quite strange and why would you come out with that to someone you dont know.

and okay not crazy i mean clingy or baggage
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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With the turkish one, build some friendly rapport wit her (every guy is trying to get in her pants). You can escalate later.

With that other one - Just qualify her every time you see her. Don't dance so easily to her interest. Make her work. But don't completely ignore her, just qualify her every time she tries to talk to you.


She says - "Hi" "Nice you to see you!" whatever

You - So, did you sell a lot of burgers today? Why not.. I need to talk to your manager.. hello! guys! Is she friendly to everybody?? NO! Come here little sh1t, get out of that apron, come here.. *spank spank spank*. lol

Good luck.
 

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She's telling you, in not so many words, that she has issues and has been hurt. She probably doesn't trust men, and will probably be insecure. Crazy? Nah, come on, I reserve that term for people who truly deserve it.

I say proceed with caution.
 

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pLaYtHiNg said:
She's telling you, in not so many words, that she has issues and has been hurt. She probably doesn't trust men, and will probably be insecure. Crazy? Nah, come on, I reserve that term for people who truly deserve it.

I say proceed with caution.
plaything this basically what i meant i just go round the bend. thanks

im thinkin she will get attached to me easilly think of me as her boyfriend and wont take nicely to me being cold after the deed.

and to that other guy her and the turkish 1 hang out outside work another reason i dont wanna bang this 1
 

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not many women are happy with a man that does that. She may sabotage your dating the other one. THINK with your big head, not the little one.
 
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