is she cheating?

[Ibanez_rocker]

I have been going out with a attractive woman for about three months all of my freinds really want her and her past has had depression (ie. slitting her wrist,belly,legs) but after we started going out with her she totally changed and is happy again and everyone says that but when she is in her hometown (concord) or anywhere i feel she is cheating on me. i told her how i feel and she hasnt responded is there any way i can test her or something so i can positively be assured if she is or not? ( i feel like this sometimes because she told me a story about her walking in a hotel and a guy came and hit her ass [we are about three months when that happend and she told me she would slap people that did that] but she didnt do anything about it and she was scared about telling me about it>? WTF? )

 

[Tails]

maybe she just doesn't mind random guys doing that to her. i'd start to worry about her being faithful. does she flirt with other men? if not, then stop worrying, sh|t happens

 

[Amalthea]

How old is she? 16, like you? Judging from her history of depression, it seems like she might have some serious low self-esteem issues and they're only further aggravated by her good-looks because everyone seems to only value her for her appearance.

Girls with low self-esteem are more likely to cheat. And attractive girls with low self-esteem are given more opportunities to cheat, I suppose. I would be careful, but not overly paranoid. Just be aware of that possibility and try not to stress yourself about it too much.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Eerrgh yikes, man I tell you. Low Self Esteem girls are not worth it.. if I hear a girl cutting herself, I am outta there fast. It's not that I don't want to help them, I just don't want to be emotionally involved with someone that will bring me down with her on her level. Don't mistake this with insecure girls (girls who think they're too fat, or blah blah blah) are okay.. they need reassurance..but low self esteem girls.. they can ONLY help themselves.

 

[Ice Cold]

I don't know if she's cheating on you, but you should next her ASAP

Suicidal people can snap...

 

[Loke]

Women with low self-esteem often see sex as someone loving them. Makes them feel better, even if for only a few minutes. Keep a look out for promiscuity.

Loke