Is she cheating on me ?

[00Kevin]

I think you should be honest with her and just tell her the truth.

This is one of the bigest problems with alot of guys who are insecure. they don't tell the girl the truth.

Tell her that for some reason you are having a hard time trusting her. Tell her that you don't understand why you feel this way either. Say that as much as you want things to continue it would just be wrong to go on this way until you sort this out.

After you say this don't say much more. Don't tell her why you think that and don't acuse her of anything. Say very little and stop yourself from opening your big mouth. Just listen to what she has to say and then tell her that you will think about it and hang up the phone.

This is what will happen.


If she is cheeting on you she will get mad at you and be shocked that she can't get anything past you. She will want to know what makes you think that. She will want to know how you figured it out.

or

If she isn't cheeting on you she will try her damn best to convince you otherwise. It will make her really sad and she might even cry and tell you that is isn't fair. She will most likely say that she just wished you would belive her.

remember there is a big difference between someone who wnats to know why you think that and someone who wants to convince you otherwise.

You need to resolve this situation fast!

 

[xenopus]

OOKevin,

Thanks for the concern

BUT don't assume that I been keeping myself quiet with regards to this issue

I did raise this issue to her on the phone and online....a couple of times !! Sometimes, she does cry and feels incapacitated because she doesn't know what else to do to convince me. Nevertheless, on every occasion she does her utmost to convince me !

Perhaps she's faithful after all. But either way, I'm still keeping my eyes peeled , and am going to try to date other girls here to take some load off my mind.