"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I acted like it didn't bother me. So I should call? I still wanna tell her the story though; sometimes I tell her stuff like this and sometimes I don't cuz I don't want her getting jealous but in this case I think I do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tr9n said:
I acted like it didn't bother me. So I should call? I still wanna tell her the story though; sometimes I tell her stuff like this and sometimes I don't cuz I don't want her getting jealous but in this case I think I do.
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Trying to make somebody jealous is not the way to go. Let others play these games but don't lower yourself to that level. DJ's are above all that.


If you call her be positive, have fun and show her what a great guy you are. That creates good feelings in her and good feelings are the key to attraction. Let her know you're having fun and enjoying yourself.


And remember, jealous people are far more likely to cheat. If they think their partner is cheating or flirting with another person they get angry and feel they have a right to do the same.
 
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