"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I acted like it didn't bother me. So I should call? I still wanna tell her the story though; sometimes I tell her stuff like this and sometimes I don't cuz I don't want her getting jealous but in this case I think I do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tr9n said:
I acted like it didn't bother me. So I should call? I still wanna tell her the story though; sometimes I tell her stuff like this and sometimes I don't cuz I don't want her getting jealous but in this case I think I do.
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Trying to make somebody jealous is not the way to go. Let others play these games but don't lower yourself to that level. DJ's are above all that.


If you call her be positive, have fun and show her what a great guy you are. That creates good feelings in her and good feelings are the key to attraction. Let her know you're having fun and enjoying yourself.


And remember, jealous people are far more likely to cheat. If they think their partner is cheating or flirting with another person they get angry and feel they have a right to do the same.
 
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