“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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majumbo

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1. went out on adte with chick. it ended well. hug. agreed to hang again.
2. called 9 days later. no phone pickup: I left message telling her to give me a buzz so we can get together again.
3. no call back from her, so I call her and say, he, wasup? I'm not playing games, was out of town for the last week. you're a cool fun chick. we should get together again. Hope to hear from you.
4. she calls back same night, sounds unusually friendly and warm on phone. Wasnt even sure if it was her cause shes usually reserved and guarded on tellie. Anyways, tells me my message put a smile on her face. She says no prob about me calling her when I did. Said she was meaning to call me, but said "calling you was my last task of the week". WTF is this supposed to mean? Is she trying to be difficult? Anyways, I ask her when shes leaving the country: she says end of dec. (Did I put pressure on the situation by implying a time table of some sort?) WOuld she think I am eager to get with her just to bang her before she left?

Anyways, she couldnt hang out that nite, cause a friend was in town. she said shed hang the following week. Told her to hang with her friend and Id get in tocuh with her next week.
5. call her next week (mid dec). No call back.
6. call twoo weeks later (end dec). No call at all.
7. She left country for a month.
8. just returned a few days ago. SHould I try one more time? Called twice before, no call back btw.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she seemed to be possibly intrested, once you give her a few days to get things back to normal after being away for so long then you may aswell give her a call because you have nothing to lose.

You got a decent chance, but dont bank on it, just incase she does not answer you.

I must say things did not look bad untill she does not call you back for ages, i think you called her too much so may have already done the damage, but not necciserly, just do yourself a favour and make that call so you have no regrets over it, if she answers you then great if not then theres plent of others for you.
 

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Welcome to another episode of another...DeathDealer Relationship Analysis...


1. went out on adte with chick. it ended well. hug. agreed to hang again.

Dates ending "well" is perceptively. You didn't kiss, but you hugged, you suave girlfriend.

2. called 9 days later. no phone pickup: I left message telling her to give me a buzz so we can get together again.

9 days later phone call = I'm not that interested in you but gimme a call cause i'm bored.

3. no call back from her, so I call her and say, he, wasup? I'm not playing games, was out of town for the last week. you're a cool fun chick. we should get together again. Hope to hear from you.

You already did play a game, it's called waiting 9 days to call.

...Said she was meaning to call me, but said "calling you was my last task of the week". WTF is this supposed to mean? Is she trying to be difficult? Anyways, I ask her when shes leaving the country: she says end of dec. (Did I put pressure on the situation by implying a time table of some sort?) WOuld she think I am eager to get with her just to bang her before she left?

You left out some details.. When she said that calling you was the last task of the week - she wasn't trying to be difficult but was telling that YOU CALLING 9 days later was a bad thing. Your next question which makes no sense to me, you know there's this forum called HIGH SCHOOL FORUM on this site, it might suit you better.

Anyways, she couldnt hang out that nite, cause a friend was in town. she said shed hang the following week. Told her to hang with her friend and Id get in tocuh with her next week.

When a girl tells you "We should hang out next week, give me a call" that means she isn't really that interested in hanging with you.

5. call her next week (mid dec). No call back.

Yup, I am so smart in predicting this.

6. call twoo weeks later (end dec). No call at all.

Desperate.

7. She left country for a month.
8. just returned a few days ago. SHould I try one more time? Called twice before, no call back btw.

and Clueless.

Summary and Answer: You messed up with that 9 days thing and the date probably didn't end that well cause from the sound of you, it sounds like you got some growing up to do. NEXT.
 

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deathdealers relationship analysis is usually wrong. I called the girl up, she picked up and said she was glad to hear from me, and apologized for not returning my calls from dec cause she was busy planning for her trip and had exams mid december and was caughht up with stuff and stressed out (shes a student) but most definitely wants to go out next week. I told her we're checking out this one museum sat at 1pm. Shes said: "Yes!!!" excitedly. Fug U deathdealer you dum ass. you give up way way way too easily. what a poosy you are bwhahahah!
 

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Originally posted by majumbo
deathdealers relationship analysis is usually wrong. I called the girl up, she picked up and said she was glad to hear from me, and apologized for not returning my calls from dec cause she was busy planning for her trip and had exams mid december and was caughht up with stuff and stressed out (shes a student) but most definitely wants to go out next week. I told her we're checking out this one museum sat at 1pm. Shes said: "Yes!!!" excitedly. Fug U deathdealer you dum ass. you give up way way way too easily. what a poosy you are bwhahahah!
and then she blows you off, and flakes out on the date.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm sure that Annette Bening would be a challenge. She's a MILF. They're hard to bag if they're multimillionaire pwincesses. Good luck.
 

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Originally posted by majumbo
deathdealers relationship analysis is usually wrong. I called the girl up, she picked up and said she was glad to hear from me, and apologized for not returning my calls from dec cause she was busy planning for her trip and had exams mid december and was caughht up with stuff and stressed out (shes a student) but most definitely wants to go out next week. I told her we're checking out this one museum sat at 1pm. Shes said: "Yes!!!" excitedly. Fug U deathdealer you dum ass. you give up way way way too easily. what a poosy you are bwhahahah!
Well optimism is always good. I'm sure you'll make a great President of the USA like George Bush one day.
 
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