"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whats up SS, quick post before I leave for the night. My sister hooked me up with this girl, this is a first for her doing nice things for me, lol. So I got her number, texted her and set up a date for tonight actually to do some interesting stuff. She is a senior in a private high school in my area, shes 18, age of consent ;) ha. Anyway she broke up with her on and off again boyfriend and apparently the part my sister left out is that i am supposed to be her prom date.... I was texting her one night and we got on the topic of my sister. Shes like "Shes the coolest girl ever!" I said, "How do you figure?" and she said "Well she found me a good prom date ;)" Then I ask her who she got hooked up with since my sister is a bit older.... she said , "Oh I was hoping you would go with me...." Wtf is that? She agreed to the date before I even knew about this but I would assume that was her and my sisters motive the whole time....

Should I just cancel the date and NC her or just go on this date and see where it goes just for fun?

On a side note.... im only 20 and when she talked about prom it made me feel old .... fvck im almost on Atom Smasher's level :(
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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most chicks are looking to get fcked on prom night
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good advice fellas, ill probably end up going to prom with her but she hasn't texted me back so im assuming shes going to flake out on tonight. Time to go do something else.
 
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