"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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Is she a tease

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Ok I need some help, I am interested in a girl that is engaged, but she comes over to my house and talks forever. She invites me over to her house when he is not at home. I give her the nice long massage that I do well. We do the dirty talk, and she has even said if she wasnt engaged she would be alot more than friends. She calls when ever he is not around. (You should see my cell bill) All I need is one kiss, but she has to want be to kiss her, i cant steal it. She says that it wouldnt be fair to her fiance if she kissed me. Well the massages arent fair either. I need all of the DJ's Help in closing this deal. If she is being a tease i cant see it maybe someone can. If she is a tease should i drop her like a rock for being one.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Originally posted by the goat
Ok I need some help, I am interested in a girl that is engaged, but she comes over to my house and talks forever. She invites me over to her house when he is not at home. I give her the nice long massage that I do well. We do the dirty talk, and she has even said if she wasnt engaged she would be alot more than friends. She calls when ever he is not around. (You should see my cell bill) All I need is one kiss, but she has to want be to kiss her, i cant steal it. She says that it wouldnt be fair to her fiance if she kissed me. Well the massages arent fair either. I need all of the DJ's Help in closing this deal. If she is being a tease i cant see it maybe someone can. If she is a tease should i drop her like a rock for being one.
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Stop right there..She is using you! Can't you see that! I know you know this already...

MY ADVICE: LEAVE HER ALONE! She sounds like a headache.
 
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She is using you as her emotional tampong, she is, and will always, be a tease.
 
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"Women can have male "friends" while most guys cant"

Do you know why this is so because women need more from men then men need from women. Unless she is is your wife, all men really need from women is sex, so its hard for most to have girl "friends". Women on the other hand are different, they don't just need sex from men so they are wise enough to keep guy "friends" around.

When a woman has something heavy to be moved-call a friend
She needs a mouse or rat killed-call a friend
She is having car problems-call a friend
She needs someone to hook up her stereo system-call a friend
Some a-hole guy is being annoying or threatening-call a friend
Her bf wont listen to her problems-call a friend
Her br wont bend to her every desire and whim-call a friend like you who will

You are a "friend" to her who provides free massages, therepy and any of the other things mentioned above. She is not keeping you around as a sex partner because if she was it would have happened. You are that "call a friend" guy, so the decision is on you what to do. Follow your "gut/instincts", because Im sure during one of those massage/complaint sessions it hit you that this girl is just using you, but you let your "little friend" and "brain" convince you other wise.
 
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Nice post Royal Elite. But the question remains - is it possible to convert "call a friend" realationship to "let's ****" realationship?

I am in a similar situation as "the goat", so should I ignore her and let her chase me? Ok if she chases me, what should I do?

If I show her my goals, she will start to treat my as a "friend" again. How to let her chase me and get her in the bed?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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