mahon83050
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When a girl has a supply of condoms and tells you she is on the pill?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She is recently single, I know that.bambam said:if she isn't a virgin and is single you have what we call a "hor". some like them and some don't. just don't hide from the fact that a hor is a hor.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Did I say that I love this kid?Mr. Wolf said:She's on the pill because she don't want to get pregnant, she has condoms because she don't want to get a VD.
What? Is it like she has a closet full of condoms? Then she is a hor. A pack? What would make a girl have condoms around? I'll answer that, men who don't have any, or she uses them for toys like dildos.
She's not a hor - unless she has a closet full of condoms - she values her future and is thinking big. She doesn't want to get tied down with a baby. In other words, she's beautiful, smart, and loves life. Which one of these ingredients makes you insecure?