I recently got this girls number off POF after TWO messages. Almost as soon as she gave me her number she deleted her profile. She said she's in Nigeria for ten days then will come back stateside. She's not on social media. She said she works at a legit place that's near me. And she's originally from a different state and her number matches that claim. I'm still pretty suspicious she could be a fake, she also said she couldn't call because she doesn't have her number activated there or facetime because her camera is broken. But she hasn't asked for money and has sent full body pics that are pretty clear. She seems pretty interested in getting to know me and we even did the 'good night' and 'good morning' texts. But I'm still HIGHLY skeptical she is fake. Thoughts?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is she a fake?
- Thread starter ikonik
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Total scam. Someone else reported her and the management removed her profile.
Thanks, good to know.
