Is she a cheater? THE WAY!

[nan3109]

ok , i know this is lame but i thought it might work and girls have fell for it before.

What i do is get one of my friends who my girlfriend doesnt know and have them call her up and tell her that she gave him her number awhile ago and was wondering if she wanted to go out to a movie,etc,etc...

when my friend did this once the girl bit and then my friend went out with her and she tried to kiss him, DUMP!

but i did it with my current girlfriend and she told him, "no, i have a boyfriend"

see... thats the phone test. the in person test is to get one of your better looking friends she doesnt know and have them go to her work and hit on her and try getting her number to set something up. If she bites the bait and follows through with a date, DUMP THAT HO!

ok, thats my psycho ways to find if your girl is cheating, BYE

 

[Starman]

pretty clever..Ive done this before and nexted the chick..she took the bait too..it also works with dummy emails..
make one up..and start writing your girl..and watch her flirt like crazy

 

[seloifter]

imo, that's kinda pathetic..... on many levels

first off, that's a double standard..... one of the dj principles is "it's not exclusive until it's been mutuall expressed" (translation: unless you both say otherwise, you have the right to date as many chicks as you want)...... you would do it if you could, right? so why be so upset if she does it?

second off, how long have you been seeing this chick? one date does not qualify as reason to "test her loyalty"

third, girls flirt. OMG there I said it! It's out in the open!! If you can't handle a girl flirting with other guys when she's dating you, you're gonna have a hard time finding a HB to stick with..... they all flirt like crazy, but it's just that: flirting. It's like if you went to play basketball. It's just a game to them. If they take it to the next level, THEN it's a problem....... but that brings me to the next point.....

fourth, you should have no reason to have the insecurity of wondering "is she gonna cheat on me?" girls will cheat if they are unsatisfied with something in their relationship. If she cheats, it's your problem. You're doing something wrong (of course some girls just cheat cuz they're ****ed up like that... in which case you just picked the wrong gal).....

fifth, a dj does not need that insecurity crap..... he is confident in himself, he doesn't give a ****..... he doesn't need to play games to figure out if his girl is being straight......

sixth, is there such a big problem with *talking* to the girl? A little communication does go a long way..... you know, isntead of "setting traps".....

just my three cents.....

 

[Quick]

This makes me think of why they have entrapment rules in law enforcement. Just because someone responds to your bait doesn't mean they would have done it otherwise. Sure you can find out your girl isn't perfect, but you need to look at yourself first. Are you absolutely positive that if a hot girl came up to you and said she wanted to suck your d*** that you wouldn't let her? I have no problem with finding out if a girl in a committed relationship is already cheating, but setting up tests is wrong.

If she cheats, that doesn't mean she would have cheated if you hadn't set up the temptation for her. If she doesn't, that could just mean she didn't like your bait. At the end of the day, you still won't have absolute assurances and peace of mind.

Also, what if she passes the test. You can't ever introduce her to your friend who helped or she'll know what you did. That would be enough for me to bail on a girl.

If you were looking to end a relationship without being the bad guy, this would be a good way. Do everything in your power to get her to cheat, then dump her when she does.

 

[T.T. Boy]

That's a pathetic AFC stunt.

 

[[A]rtful[DJ]]

Originally posted by T.T. Boy
That's a pathetic AFC stunt.

Agree, it spells insecure....

 

[CGE333]

One more vote for this being an AFC move, a true DJ knows that his woman can't find anything better than him so she doesn't need/want to look. And if she does, the DJ will find out and Next her.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Uh, cute stunt for kids. Yes, it can trap the girl or prove her to you. It's AFC--I can't say why, I just feel it.

For me, though, the real thing is that you use this technique and never learn anything beyond slick tricks like this--as in, learning how to tell if she has character or not, learning to tell if she's really interested in you or not, being confident (because you're sneaking around pulling tricks..)---basically, on a deeper level, it will cost you a lot more than it's worth.

You don't need this, she'll reveal what she's about soon enough, and you have to learn how to read that on your own.