You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
hell no,i like bigger women, a matter of fact, id say the one thing that really gets me to approach a certain girl is probably her ass, nice and juicy.kdnash82 said:Guess this guy hasn't read our post on banging chubby chicks.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=130189
If you're one of those guys who like a little more meat on their women, then by all means, go out and bang you a chub. If not, then there will definately be some regret afterwards.
Not later on down the road regret. Not after it's all said and done regret. But the instant moment where you're about to blow your load there will be a feeling that comes over you. "Oh no... What am I doing? Oh gawd!! Noo... Noo.. Nooooooooo" and you blow your load.
You will instantly feel dirty. All the blood will flow back to your brain and away from your dikk. You will realize what just happened and swear that you will never do it again.
One day you'll go back into another slump and you will do it all over again. For some it's a never ending process "Circle of Life". They learn to deal with it and accept the fact that they actually like big girls. Others will learn from their mistakes and never venture down that road again. Which one will you be?
They learn to deal with it and accept the fact that they actually like big girls. Others will learn from their mistakes and never venture down that road again.
Point madehell no,i like bigger women, a matter of fact, id say the one thing that really gets me to approach a certain girl is probably her ass, nice and juicy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Chubby chicks are only easier to get because:gimmeyofonenumba said:I dont care anymore i want some pvssy. Im not talking about morbidly fat and ugly. Im talking maybe an extra couple ~15-25 lbs but still good looking. I have a feeling its still gonna be the same game to play if i was approaching an hb8, except more compliments and no c&f. Do you think they'd possibly get to bed quicker?
VERY true. From personal experience, I find chubbies are much easier to talk to, and make progress with.jonwon said:Chubby chicks are only easier to get because:
You dont fear rejection from some chubber you dont really fancy anyway, you really 'have' nothing to loose.
Your ego does not take a hit if they blow you in.
You can act more yourself around chuuby chicks for the above reason, your not really that bothered.
Chuuby chicks, men think there doing them a favour where has a hot 10, men think the women is doint them a favour.
Its all well at truely when all is said and done, in your mind.
Chubby chicks are the stable diet of PUA, AFC's practicing game and getting fuc*'s, men who want to get laid and fear the hot babes.
Chubby chicks are seen to be more of a 'sure thing' hence the fear associated with gaming them is vastly reduced, even if you get rejected.
Chubby chicks are imo probably worse then a hot ten, to some degree.
I would put money on the table chubby 4's to 5's get chatted up more then any hot ten ever will, since so many men see them as safe!
So before you think a chubba is better for you, most AFC'S think the same way.
But there are some average women out there who apprecciate a man in there life and will jump through rings of fire to please you, just be-carful which type you choose.
Some chubby chicks are AFC shooting galleries, some chicks still dont get attention, since there chubby but have feminine grace or have something else that elevates them from mere chubbyvile, its the second type that makes a good fuc* has they dam well apprecciate it.
Some women are so dam ugly they would love any male attention.
There are different scales.
I find chubby chicks far more 'gamed' up then normal chicks due to them knowing how men operate has they have so much attention.
Dam i have gone out with chub's before, i even have some has reguler play things, just play things, sometimes its nice to be treated has royalty, but then again, some chub's get so much attention, there nothing but the preverbial fat sla*. Careful which you choose.
At the end of the day, it's about fear regardless, granted you may score some girl who does not get attention, but chubs are definatly not that catagory, infact chubs, the sla* variaty get a HELL of alot of attention.
keep a few around and date some but for a second do not think they are not getting it or have the potential to else where, simple fact is if you can get a chubby chick on your dic* you have a 100% chance and i mean a 100% to score a none chubby chick who is 10 more attractive.
They are great tools to have around and when all is said and done, it beats, beating the meat, but if i do chub they have something else that i find attractive about them.
I date all kinds, but then again i dont give a fuc* what others think about me, if that chub makes me hard and i like it, i will bang it, but like all guys i date attractive women ALOT also, its just now and again its good to keep a chub or a 'place holder' in the background, to keep you rooted in reality and fight away the flies of desperation.
Playersupreame would advocate the same things, there ok for place holders, but idealy you should be aiming for the type of girl YOU REALLY WANT, chubs make great training wheels.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tazman said:It is the most uncomfortable feeling in the world to be laying next to a chick you don't like that much after you've finished and she tries to cuddle with you. You just want to run out of the house at full speed. It can develop into a viscious cycle.
lol, yeah, especially when she starts with the pillow talk, hehe.Tazman said:It is the most uncomfortable feeling in the world to be laying next to a chick you don't like that much after you've finished and she tries to cuddle with you. You just want to run out of the house at full speed.
Mostly I think it's just easier for guys with low confidence to exhibit the correct attitude. If you're not really desperate to do her she can tell, no matter what the REASON, so chubbers are a good training tool.Tazman said:I used to think that going for less attractive chicks would be easier, and I guess it can be, ....
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HAHAHA!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:kdnash82 said:Guess this guy hasn't read our post on banging chubby chicks.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=130189
If you're one of those guys who like a little more meat on their women, then by all means, go out and bang you a chub. If not, then there will definately be some regret afterwards.
Not later on down the road regret. Not after it's all said and done regret. But the instant moment where you're about to blow your load there will be a feeling that comes over you. "Oh no... What am I doing? Oh gawd!! Noo... Noo.. Nooooooooo" and you blow your load.
You will instantly feel dirty. All the blood will flow back to your brain and away from your dikk. You will realize what just happened and swear that you will never do it again.
One day you'll go back into another slump and you will do it all over again. For some it's a never ending process "Circle of Life". They learn to deal with it and accept the fact that they actually like big girls. Others will learn from their mistakes and never venture down that road again. Which one will you be?
The Sperminator said:Not really true. A lot of fat chicks think they are hot. Fat chicks are some of the most shallow girls I've met. Not all but a lot of them. All their life there friends and family tell them how pretty they are just so she won't have low self esteem when she gets older. This gets put in their head and makes them think they are hot **** when they are busted. For example I saw a fat chicks myspace and in her pics she had a **** load of comments saying how beautiful and pretty she was, but this was from all females. They are all liars she was butt ugly, but after a while it gets in her head that she is pretty.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.