Is Prostitution Really so Bad?

[jarworpar]

In our culture, we are taught that paying for sex is not only immoral, but extremely shameful. However, as men we pay for sex anyway. Think about the dates you take a women on (before you have sex with her and afterwards), not to mention marriage. After all, men are traditionally the providers in a relationship. I would like to get you guys' opinion on this....Would you pay a woman for sex?

 

[Fred_Scuttle]

Why pay a wh0re when you can ride a slut for free. Paying a cheap hooker should make you feel like a total loser. You can buy a new suit and look good for that money you waste on an used up hooker. Buy a suit and get a woman the real way.

 

[jarworpar]

LOL...I'm not talking about a used up hooker. You every see that HBO show that takes place in Nevada about the Moonlight Bunny Ranch? Those women are far from used up.

 

[bigneil]

As Matthew Fitzgerald said in "Sexploytation" - a Prostitute is the more ethical counterpart to the American woman. For the American woman prostitutes herself as a matter of course - she just charges a lot more. Why do you think American women hate hookers? Because they underbid them for the use of their vag*ina. (Also see "The Manipulated Man" (1972)).

 

[Fred_Scuttle]

That place has been around for years. They will soon be used up too. I thought you meant just a wh0re off the streets. Youre still paying for it. Get a new suit, dress well, look good, have a good attitude, gain some confidence, have good posture, then you wont have to pay. you will be able to get women on your own without laying your cash out.

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

In our culture, we are taught that paying for sex is not only immoral, but extremely shameful. However, as men we pay for sex anyway. Think about the dates you take a women on (before you have sex with her and afterwards), not to mention marriage. After all, men are traditionally the providers in a relationship. I would like to get you guys' opinion on this....Would you pay a woman for sex?

No I wouldn't pay for sex. But I agree with you...most men do pay, hoping to get some @ss. This is called "trickin". This includes doing any of the following for her before sex occurs:

-Giving her gifts or cash
-Expensive dates
-Buying a woman a drink at a club
-Anything else a man would do to expend significant time or energy in order to get or maintain a supply of sex

It's not about the dollar amount. It's the fact that a lot of guys feel like they have to use their wallet to compensate for a lack of game (tact, style, confidence, personality, etc). Having a woman who wants to bang you (or be with you) for your personality is much more powerful than one who wants you for your possessions.

 

[Mike32ct]

I would much prefer to pick up a one night stand. I have no interest in hookers. The primary advantage with the ONS is you aren't on the clock. You can actually spend all night with her, not just an hour.

Is it easy to get a ONS? That varies a LOT, depending on the guys looks, age, status, etc. It ranges for extremely easy to nearly impossible.

 

[jarworpar]

Well, I wasn't asking for advice, but thanks anyway. I do all those things, and I'm in a relationship. The main motivation for asking is to spark debate on whether or not we actually do "pay."

 

[jarworpar]

Well put Royal Flyness....You're a fan of Tariq Nasheed, right?

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

Thanks jarworpar. Yep, I've checked out his shows along with a few others

 

[jarworpar]

I thought so. I think I heard him shout you out before on ustream.

 

[Mike32ct]

Well, I wasn't asking for advice, but thanks anyway. I do all those things, and I'm in a relationship. The main motivation for asking is to spark debate on whether or not we actually do "pay."

You always pay one way or the other. Even ONS are not free. You still burn fuel to go out, maybe pay cover charges, buy drinks, buy sharp clothes, etc.

 

[jarworpar]

You always pay one way or the other. Even ONS are not free. You still burn fuel to go out, maybe pay cover charges, buy drinks, buy sharp clothes, etc.

Exactly Mike...I was having this debate with a few friends earlier. We pay for it anyway. I guess it just seems more pathetic when one does so overtly.

 

[Mike32ct]

Exactly Mike...I was having this debate with a few friends earlier. We pay for it anyway. I guess it just seems more pathetic when one does so overtly.

Correct. I love to hook up on vacation. But is it free? Hell no. There's a flight, hotel, meals, etc.

 

[Londonman09]

I can't remember where I heard this but the best quote is "I'm not paying a hookerto sleep with me, I'm paying her to go away after" haha

I'm not against it... I see where it might be some mens only avenue to sleep with a gorgeous woman, but where is the fun/ chase/ lust? I have a serious addiction to new women... but 80 % of that fun is the seduction. paying a hooker to get your rocks off is kinda sad... rent a porno and save your money

 

[Londonman09]

Correct. I love to hook up on vacation. But is it free? Hell no. There's a flight, hotel, meals, etc.

Not to pick on you....but I've seen this arguement before. You can seduce a girl for free if you want... I met a girl, paid for her coffee.. and was in bed that night with her. Cost me $1.50. Any vacation you go on, diner, etc isntfor the sole purpose of getting laid.. hopefully to enjoy life, meet new people and experience new things.

 

[L B]

It's funny because it's wrong because society tells you it's wrong. But hidden from society's views are hooker houses left and right. It's like it's the right thing to do, but don't tell anyone.

Unless you're in a committed relationship, there is nothing wrong with it. Just don't bring anything home with you.

Also it's cheaper than a long term relationship considering time, effort (mental, emotional, and physical), and money that goes into every relationship.

 

[fonderboy]

Sill society =\

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

I would much prefer to pick up a one night stand. I have no interest in hookers. The primary advantage with the ONS is you aren't on the clock. You can actually spend all night with her, not just an hour.

Is it easy to get a ONS? That varies a LOT, depending on the guys looks, age, status, etc. It ranges for extremely easy to nearly impossible.

What about the time it takes to get a ONS.

Say yo are not great looking or not social...so you try for 2 months and dont get laid. You have spent a lot off money going out etc..

well you coudlve got liad in day1 by using a hooker,

I know I can get laid probably even for free..avoid clubs meet girls work, library etc..etc...I have met girls which was albeit on holdiay but had sex without spedning a dime on them.

Anyway at home I am not social at all. THerefore never get sex.

I find socislaing akward adn ebign with girls.

I dislike using a hooker but at least I

1. Dont need to try for sex

2. Dont need to have any social issues about getting rid off her after sex, or other things etc...

I can just get sex with 0 stress. However I still feel afterwards its money wasted.

BUt then its no sex or hookers?

 

[Jaylan]

You always pay one way or the other. Even ONS are not free. You still burn fuel to go out, maybe pay cover charges, buy drinks, buy sharp clothes, etc.

By that same token, women pay too. They drive, take cabs, buy makeup and clothes, etc.

Btw I have never, ever, bought a girl a drink who I was not already dating. And even after weve started hanging out a bit I usually get the girls who bring their own cash and even by me a drink from time to time.

And about prostitutes. I think its pathetic for any man to ever need to pay for sex when I go out and get it with ease if I wanted to. Hell one of my one night stands was at a house party and she gamed me actually. I was on the rebound after a bad breakup but she was a lil persistent. I did not buy new clothes, or use gas, or spend any money that night. I mean outside of buying a five dollar cup for the kegs of beer.

Im too prideful to need sex that much that Id be weak enough to waste my hard earned cash for it.

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