"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is prostitution for a hopeless case not considered as shameful as for a normal man?

MatureDJ

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It seems that the chi chi movie out now is "The Sessions" (aka "The Surrogate"), which is about a paralyzed 38 y.o. (male) virgin who hires a "sex surrogate" so that he finally gets some action. Of course, in keeping with the preference of the matriarchy, the ho ... excuse me, sex surrogate, is a 49 y.o. woman, who evidently because she has the proper training and attitude, is preferable to a hot coed. (With that said, Helen Hunt is definitely pleasing to the eyes for such a mature woman.)

http://blogs.wsj.com/speakeasy/2012/10/18/confessions-of-a-sex-surrogate/

Anyway, the movie seems to be touching a social meme that hasn't been repeated since the Cinderellesque "Pretty Woman" - i.e., the non-shameful prostitute hookup (and this one isn't even considered prostitution, since it is psychological "therapy". :p )

This got me thinking that the main reason that this is such a "heartwarming' movie is that it is a hopeless case man - someone so undesirable that no women considers him to even be a man in the game - that is paying for sex - along with the payee being an educated mature woman, which if course, is the type of woman that men should actually be desiring for sex, instead of the attractive young bimbo.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is a topic which many of us have an opinion of, unfortunately, some of us may have been brainwashed to believe prostitution is wrong. The criminal side of it, in the form of human trafficking is wrong. A well regulated adult industry gives men far greater choice, and many of us today are time poor. If this movie goes towards opening people's eyes up to what the reality is for many many men, hopefully it can do some good.
 

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The reason prostitution has a taboo is because women who do it usually do it because they have had hardships of sorts, either drug addiction or childhood abuse, having said that there are 2 ways to look at it, from a social and biological perspective she is giving up her femininity, it can be seen as not socially acceptable to take out the courtesies of courtship and it is also biologically damaging as they become desensitized to intimacy although this depends on the girl it is possible, this view illicits moral disgust.
Or you can view it from a primal perspective where the women is empowered in to having such control over guys and a very high earning potential, to the disdain of men and jealousy of women.

If only the catalyst to what drives most women in to prostitution were positive in the 1st place it would be encouraged to be seen in a different light.
As there are countless positives, although I am not sure I imagine there would be lowered rape, encouragement for incels to earn more which boosts the economy.
 

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The point about prostitution again is no different about the one about feminism, its not about women rights but women power.

If men were non dependant on "dates" to release their sexual tension women would lose almost totally the power they have now and Im not talking about the power to reject guys who are two leagues above them at the club, Im talking about this new religion called female superiority where "women are more intelligent,have a higher moral, dont fart etc.)

Most of afcs and ass kisser are like that because they simply lack the opportunity to see a woman naked in their bed blowing their c0ck, while almost all women are used to see men making themselves ridicolous in an attempt to gain validation from them, wheter physical or psychological.

Do you think an average woman would be allowed to behave as an entitled cvnt and ride the c0ck carousel with no conseguences if the average man was allowed to buy sex on demand legally?

Would you think most of men would still put women on a pedestal if they just banged a couple doggy style the day before?

Prostitution is not about women rights since making it illegal its what allows criminal to enslave girls, because with a legal markets no man will go feed the enslavers...all would rely on the legal market, let alone the tax income the state would get and the rights to a sex life for the productive half of the population known as "men".

Legal prostitution would do to women what facebook and cellphones just did to men, force them to compete 24/7 for any tip of attention and validation plus downgrade them to commodities.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting hot, young girls to drop their panties for you is an ego boost that prostitution can't substitute. It makes you feel like you're being rewarded for your efforts in self improvement (get a better body, get more attention, get a better job, get more attention, and so on). Everything has a price and for a lot of guys hiring a prostitute would actually be cheaper, but it's a point of pride.

Taken one step further, how is a trophy wife any different from a prostitute, particularly if she's only there under guise of 'love' and doesn't care about the guy at all?

In the case you mentioned, why not? Since he may be incapable of getting attractive women by other means, sure. Although you'd be surprised what kind of men with deformities can attract women. There's a guy (I forgot his name) who has no arms or legs; he was born that way. He does a lot of public speaking about happiness, life, chasing dreams, etc. He has a pretty cool personality and his own form of game. I saw a video of him presenting to a class of high school girls and they were all in tears. He's been on plenty of shows and is now married to a 'normal' girl. So, it's really not an excuse.
 

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muscleman said:
Getting hot, young girls to drop their panties for you is an ego boost that prostitution can't substitute. It makes you feel like you're being rewarded for your efforts in self improvement (get a better body, get more attention, get a better job, get more attention, and so on). Everything has a price and for a lot of guys hiring a prostitute would actually be cheaper, but it's a point of pride.
You're 29. You should be able to get women from 18 + with no problems at that age.

Wait a while though. In 6 / 7 years time, you might still look young (I did) and was able to pull 21, 22, 23 year olds all the time, but I got blown off more than once when I disclosed my actual age (36 at the time)

Now I'm in my early 40's, and it's just not the same. It's not going to get any better as I get older. My ability to talk a 18-22 year old hot chick into bed is an uphill battle to say the least.

Not impossible, but let's be real here. No normal 18-22 year old wants to hook up with a guy in his 40's. Unless you enjoy girls with daddy issues...which I don't.

There just comes a point in time when you run out of options. I don't feel like I am there yet, but I know it's close. There will be a day when the only way I can get a young, hot woman into bed is going to be by opening my wallet.

That's life.
 
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