MatureDJ
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Is "porn addiction" really just a form of coercion to undermine intimacy?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i've seen enough porn in my life to conclude that watching porn is mainly just dumb.
its something thats fascinating when you're a young teen and starting to get into girls and sexuality, you watch
it and its like wooooooooow, this stuff is awesome!
then you grow up and after a while realize, god this is stupid.
BUT, i wonder if i would still be saying that if it wasn't available with 1 click anytime any day? hmmmm, i wonder...
its something thats fascinating when you're a young teen and starting to get into girls and sexuality, you watch
it and its like wooooooooow, this stuff is awesome!
then you grow up and after a while realize, god this is stupid.
BUT, i wonder if i would still be saying that if it wasn't available with 1 click anytime any day? hmmmm, i wonder...