Is poontang the only real cure for male depression?

[bat soup]

Sex is only a momentary release. That's like saying that cocaine cures depression. In some cases casual sex could even make it worse, because after the high you get the low.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

if you're banging hot chicks it cures depression
If your banging fat, ugly chicks its causes depression and remorse
Don't ask me how i know this.

 

[corrector]

Sex is only a momentary release. That's like saying that cocaine cures depression. In some cases casual sex could even make it worse, because after the high you get the low.

Well said. You go off the cliff and think there is still ground below. If something makes you too high then you are in a blissful trance before the system starts crashing.

The blissful thing is good, like you dont care about gas prices or anything. But it feels like the defenses are all gone when that happens. You know something bad will happen when you are in a "too good to be true" state and you cant put your finger on it. With me it was the panic attacks when I tried to get my bearings.

 

[BadBoy89]

Its not the sex that cure depression but the feel of being appreciated, desidered and approved.

+1.

This is what this site is all about. Men in here don't really want sex from women, sex is very easy to get in 2020. Men want affection, emotion, effort, initiation and love, from women. This is VERY hard to get in 2020. Especially in North America, where a woman's rational needs are pretty taken care of by the government, so a woman is free to look for emotional needs with the genetically blessed bad boy.

I read an article the other day that said: The ONE thing men want from women is the ONE thing women HATE to give men. The thing is nourishment. Men want to be nourished. It means MORE to them than the sex. Yet women hate to give it because they feel like they are the man's mother, they feel like they have to take care of another boy. Granted men don't want another mother, but they want to cared for, listened to, respected, adored. When they don't get that, and instead get abused, put down, disrespected, they get confused, start to lash out, and get angry at women. In essence that's why we say go for the sex, the woman has to build the relationship. No woman is going to build a relationship out of abusing the man, right?

As for happiness, I would say happiness comes from a means of both accomplishment and service. A man has to feel like he's accomplished something with his life; a degree, an award, a baby, something. He also has to feel like he has been of service to people, he has helped society and made an impact in some meaningful way.

It's like being on a basketball or hockey team. If the coach puts you in the game and you touch the ball/puck and your team wins, you have been IN THE GAME and are happy. If the coach doesn't put you in the game, you want your team to lose.

All the man has to do is touch that ball every time he is put in the game and WIN.

 

[bat soup]

I know for me personally, I've had times that I've been getting sex but the girl was in a relationship with someone else or just didn't want anything serious and if anything it made me feel more depressed.

Because we'd have this great time and then she'd leave and I didn't know if I'd ever see her again.

In any case, depression is more about how your mind works and the way you think than about getting or not getting any one particular thing.

 

[MatureDJ]

Sex itself only briefly takes away tension if validation is missing.

Depressed guys who pay hookers leave even more depressed than before since there is no validation.

I don't agree with this. There is a high level of validation that some women was the agent of the ejaculation, as opposed to having to fap for it.

I guess the eternal question here is whether or not it's better to sexually serviced by a woman of a certain level of physical attractiveness and being sexually receptive from the get-go versus having to game, plead, etc. a less attractive woman who typically is NOT sexually receptive. I'm sorry, but "validation" from a fat chick or single mommy is not worth much.

 

[MatureDJ]

if you're banging hot chicks it cures depression
If your banging fat, ugly chicks its causes depression and remorse
Don't ask me how i know this.

This might be the best comment I have ever read here.

 

[bat soup]

I don't agree with this. There is a high level of validation that some women was the agent of the ejaculation, as opposed to having to fap for it.

Only if you believe this. Needing other people to validate you is part of the problem. You shouldn't decide whether or not to value yourself based on the opinion of some club slut.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I don't agree with this. There is a high level of validation that some women was the agent of the ejaculation, as opposed to having to fap for it.

I guess the eternal question here is whether or not it's better to sexually serviced by a woman of a certain level of physical attractiveness and being sexually receptive from the get-go versus having to game, plead, etc. a less attractive woman who typically is NOT sexually receptive. I'm sorry, but "validation" from a fat chick or single mommy is not worth much.

I agree, would rather pay to bang a hottie than date a fattie and bang her but still something that anyone can have does not validate you.

This is the reason why the happies ones are those who hot escorts but still have their own girlfriend at the same time.

 

[SW15]

Men in here don't really want sex from women, sex is very easy to get in 2020.

Sex is not as easy to get as you claim to be.

Men want affection, emotion, effort, initiation and love, from women. This is VERY hard to get in 2020. Especially in North America, where a woman's rational needs are pretty taken care of by the government, so a woman is free to look for emotional needs with the genetically blessed bad boy.

I read an article the other day that said: The ONE thing men want from women is the ONE thing women HATE to give men. The thing is nourishment. Men want to be nourished. It means MORE to them than the sex. Yet women hate to give it because they feel like they are the man's mother, they feel like they have to take care of another boy. Granted men don't want another mother, but they want to cared for, listened to, respected, adored. When they don't get that, and instead get abused, put down, disrespected, they get confused, start to lash out, and get angry at women. In essence that's why we say go for the sex, the woman has to build the relationship. No woman is going to build a relationship out of abusing the man, right?

As for happiness, I would say happiness comes from a means of both accomplishment and service. A man has to feel like he's accomplished something with his life; a degree, an award, a baby, something. He also has to feel like he has been of service to people, he has helped society and made an impact in some meaningful way.

Men do want the additional stuff you mentioned beyond sex. In a scenario of "Having sex and not having those other things vs. not having sex and not having those other things", the right choice is having sex. Men not having sex aren't getting affection and emotional support either. Sex at least takes care of one of those needs.

 

[Mike32ct]

I don't agree with this. There is a high level of validation that some women was the agent of the ejaculation, as opposed to having to fap for it.

I guess the eternal question here is whether or not it's better to sexually serviced by a woman of a certain level of physical attractiveness and being sexually receptive from the get-go versus having to game, plead, etc. a less attractive woman who typically is NOT sexually receptive. I'm sorry, but "validation" from a fat chick or single mommy is not worth much.

Different types of guys respond differently to prostie encounters. Some are smiling for a week. Others would feel worse about it afterwards.
As for lowering your standards to get it "for free," I would agree that there should be some limits to that. I'll gladly take a dry spell over a chick 3X my size.