"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is playing tennis a good action 1st date? Assuming you'd be on her side of the court

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Is playing tennis a good idea for a 1st action date?

Assuming she doesn't know how to play you'd spend most of the time kino'ing her on her side of the court rather than on the opposite end hitting the ball to her.

I read somewhere suggesting to hang out is a good way to get yourself in without actually asking her out. Sometimes girls don't have high interest straight away so getting them out with you can change their mind.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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He needs validation.

I think tennis would be fine for a date, just make sure there is a lot of goofing around and having fun. Since it wouldnt really seem like a date, you would NEED to escalate or be LJBF'd.

Anything you do that you can make fun, is a good idea for a date. It'd be easier to have fun playing tennis than if it were coffee, or dinner. Also, competition, and breaking a sweat are good dates too.
 
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