Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is playing tennis a good action 1st date? Assuming you'd be on her side of the court

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Is playing tennis a good idea for a 1st action date?

Assuming she doesn't know how to play you'd spend most of the time kino'ing her on her side of the court rather than on the opposite end hitting the ball to her.

I read somewhere suggesting to hang out is a good way to get yourself in without actually asking her out. Sometimes girls don't have high interest straight away so getting them out with you can change their mind.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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He needs validation.

I think tennis would be fine for a date, just make sure there is a lot of goofing around and having fun. Since it wouldnt really seem like a date, you would NEED to escalate or be LJBF'd.

Anything you do that you can make fun, is a good idea for a date. It'd be easier to have fun playing tennis than if it were coffee, or dinner. Also, competition, and breaking a sweat are good dates too.
 
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