"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is our "values" outdated?

dudewut

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In my other thread

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196757

Ws well as some other threads here, it seems like women cheating is not a matter of IF but a matter of WHEN.

In that case, why do we have to walk if one sleeps with another? I found out from a Rooshv thread as well as Roissy/Heartiste and the thealphapersona.com that the best way to handle it, is to not care. Do you agree with this?

to me if I am getting something out of it and I dont invest as much, I wouldnt walk, I would assume an indifferent stance and keep milking it as long as I can.

((of course, if your "feelings" are involved, then one must walk, but I dont see that being a problem for me or any other DJs))
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is why many would agree that you shouldn't be willing to get into relationships so hastily. If you are just fvck buddies then it shouldn't even matter if you or her are fvcking other people.

Now relationships are a whole other story. When you both agreed to date it's like you signed an invisible contract that said you'd be exclusive to one another. If she breaks that contract then if your eyes, the relationship is null and void. Her cheating shows that SHE doesn't value your relationship or the contract.

To address your point, I'd say that after she cheated, yeah you can still hang around to get sex out of it, but the relationship is over, the contract has been shredded to pieces and other girls are fair game to you as well. She is no longer your gf, just a fb. And she has no right to be angry at you because SHE broke the contract, not you.
 

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RooshV should not be giving relationship advice at all. He just cares about fvcking and sleeping with as many woman as he possibly can. His advice is how a psychopath would react.

Our values are not outdated, they've just been lost with this massive influx of feminism. Just because a large majority of woman are unfaithful does NOT mean we should throw in the towel and say "Okay, you win. This is acceptable. You can cheat. I forgive you." No, you lay down the law. If she cheats, you leave. If every man did this, if every man was a DJ, if every man had their eyes opened to the Matrix, then woman would probably shape the fvck up. Don't you think? Lead by example. This is an uphill battle for us already, don't start giving up now. Stay TRUE to your values.

-Scars
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
They don't just cheat they leave.
LOL let them leave, you have at least 3 more.

Scars said:
RooshV should not be giving relationship advice at all. He just cares about fvcking and sleeping with as many woman as he possibly can. His advice is how a psychopath would react.

Our values are not outdated, they've just been lost with this massive influx of feminism. Just because a large majority of woman are unfaithful does NOT mean we should throw in the towel and say "Okay, you win. This is acceptable. You can cheat. I forgive you." No, you lay down the law. If she cheats, you leave. If every man did this, if every man was a DJ, if every man had their eyes opened to the Matrix, then woman would probably shape the fvck up. Don't you think? Lead by example. This is an uphill battle for us already, don't start giving up now. Stay TRUE to your values.

-Scars
Nobody says its alright, and that we forgive them. It just means that when they cheat, they are one of those girls and are not supposed to be taken seriously.

Walking and not picking up the phone kinda sounds like you were butthurt and that you cared soooo much.

And we all know Feminism won already, and the likelihood that are gonna get the old days back is very, very, very slim (it turns out cheating women existed even before feminism anyways)

adapt or die.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
ok so then you know not to waste any more time on that one...i was under the impression that you were making a point. Obviously if you're cheating on her you don't care if she cheats...
Having backups are cheating? Dont we have an abundance of women that there are some that is interested int he vicinity?

Say, you are super virtuous and you only have 1 woman. Is it really that hard to replace her if she wrongs you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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