"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is our teaching AFC's how to get women going against the natural order?

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STR8UP said:
Think about this for a second.

He wasn't assuming the "feminine" role. Women don't try to slow things down to make them mean something or compliment the guy....they simply exercise ASD. The guy wasn't using ASD, he was an AFC. He just didn't know any better. Most young guys like that don't.

I agree with the premise behind your statement though. Too often it's MEN who try to make it "meaningful" and assuming the feminine role.
but also keep in mind WHY you think he was assuming this role. of course he didnt know better, but primarly because he "assumed" thats what she wanted. lost so far in the matrix to even realize that was the complete opposite.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DavenJuan said:
primarly because he "assumed" thats what she wanted. lost so far in the matrix to even realize that was the complete opposite.
Yup. He thought she was acting out of the ordinary because she wasn't acting like the girls on the sitcoms.
 
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