Is Online dating the cheat code

[Pandora]

So i have been thinking about online dating after messing around on my friends account. Its so easy to get girls to message you back if you say the right things. I was under the impression that it was as difficult as Tinder. But its way easier for some reason.

Im an old school type of guy and i used to kinda look down on online dating. Im more of a pick up purist. I like the adrenaline rush of approaching. Im so used to the pick up and i have devoted so much of my life to getting good at it that i cant imagine not doing it. Its like a hobby.

Do you guys look at online dating as cheat code? Is it as fulfilling as picking up a girl in real life? Is it something that an old school guy like me should pursue? I remember Roosh making an article about how he kinda looks down on it. Even though i kinda frown on it, i can not deny the amount of decent looking women on these site. It seems like a source of untapped pus**.

 

[logicallefty]

I apply this "beer" theory to all women I date, b@ng, etc. But yeah prolly a little more to ones I meet online vs ones I meet in real life.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221281

 

[sodbuster]

Well, it depends on the area you live in, not many women I'd date on the sites near me.... which is WHY I was online, but the women from further away didn't want to date that far away......

It's easier for them to read your profile and weed you out.... IF you've met them in a bar and had sex, they may think they can overlook little things... online... not so much

 

[Pandora]

It's easier for them to read your profile and weed you out.... IF you've met them in a bar and had sex, they may think they can overlook little things... online... not so much

yeh dude ur right. That online dating stuff i harder than i originally thought. Been on for about a day now. Its a totally different skill set than meeting women in real life. Its not fun at all lol. Most don't even respond. I have a new found respect for guys that make online game work. I just needed to walk in their shoes for a day to see it aint easy.

I feel like online game rejection is more degrading then in person rejection. Maybe im just old school but i will take day/night game any day over online haha.

 

[MtnMan]

I had good luck with online dating, banged about 60% of the girls that i went on first dates with. I just put up good pictures, a minimal profile and waited for girls to like me or message me first. If they 'liked' me i would shoot a message off, go back and forth a couple exchanges then drop:
"you seem cool, here is my cell, shoot me a text and we can grab a drink sometime"

Then I would wait for her to initiate. The interested girls would initiate and I would go out with them and escalate.

It works if you let the girl do the work. Obviously you need to be decent looking in your pics and be preferably tall, this helps.

 

[sodbuster]

I'd have to lie about my age, and I didn't. I'll have 21 year olds flirt with me in the bar, spend the night looking my way, smiling, etc. BUT if they read I was 55... it's game over. I don't hit on the young one's... I have all the stupid I need in my life.

What KILLS me is the 35 year olds.... they still think they can land a 35 year old man....He's looking at the 25 year olds. OR the fat 55 year olds who look like my MOTHER and think I'd date them.... my baby face was a pain in the azz when I was younger, but NOW I expect it to pay off in dating....

 

[In2theGame]

Ive done both and I prefer the face to face approach interaction. I like going up to Women and telling them straight out I think they are beautiful/hot/sexy, My looks do play a big part in it but I get much better results in real life approaches. Online dating is cool and everything but The last time i did that was when Myspace was hot back in 2004/2005. I remember having girls arguing about me in my comments section lol! good times. One thing that I have noticed, atleast from my experience, The hottest Women i have always gotten through a face to face approach and the average to sub par Women have been more open to chatting online. Probably because the Hottest chicks are getting swarmed with messages? i dont know. I could never get the hot ones to respond. In person though, I can get them.

 

[mangotot]

If it works for you then great but sadly most men are unsuccessful at the online dating game.

 

[bansheRider]

I avoid online dating, the quality is just too low, I did check out Jdate (I'm Not Jewish) the quality was better but most were far away and also they(Jdate) wanted you to pay for a better account for any kind of message exchange, so I deleted it. As an older guy day game is where it's at. I am surprised often how well thing go with great looking and quite a bit younger women. If I went the online game her list of demands IE- 6ft tall and 45 to 55 age would rule me out at the start. I went out (on a fix-up date) with this gal that had a POF account she seemed to think she was a 8.5 instead of the 4.5 I was looking at. She flaked for the 2nd date and I dropped her that quick. Online might be OK for guys around 25-30 but for me it just is not worth the time. I peruse Craiglist personals and have seen maybe 5 ads I would have considered quality women over about 6 months, since my divorce.