"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is online a cool place to meet chickes?

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wutang180

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Hey everyone,
I live in a small college town. I have tried dating females here and there. But it seems to me that many of the females like to play games. One day they are interested in me and the other day they aren't. Then when I lose interest... They call me out of the blue to see how I'm doing.... Then I show interest and they lose interest. I'm just tired of these little mind games. This needs to be stopped.

Well, I was thinking about meeting women online instead. I've heard of match.com. I've heard that it is an excellent service to meet different types of women. Plus, the women are more mature there because they know exactly what they want. Is looking for a woman online cool or is this anti-don juan behavior.

Please let me know.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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johnnyhero79

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well try and going to a buffet..they always have pretty chicks there...:crackup:
 
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"Is online a cool place to meet chicks?"

Well, "cool" is subjective, so , if it works for you , then F what anybody else says basically. But, is online a GOOD place to meet chicks?? The short answer, IMHO at least, is no. Much better off meeting somehow offline, in the real world. It's been my experience that relationships started online (with ONE exception that I personally know of) just don't end up going much of anywhere at all. It is possible to get laid though, through using online, but it's rare; has to be the right broad at the right time kind of thing. And FORGET ANY kind of website that advertises itself as an "adults personals". 99% of women who are above a 4 on the HB scale will NEVER post an online advertisement looking for sex , in reality. Those are all spam artists and just plain BS.

~Dino~
 
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Agree with Dino. It's good to place an ad just to have more lures in the water & more dates to help prevent one-itis from setting in, but I wouldn't rely on it exclusively. It should be in addition to your real-world social activities, not instead of them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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