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A couple of days ago, I said that night game was dead. Of course it isn't, but it is in the worst condition that I've seen it in ever since I first started going to them. What I've noticed, at least in my city, is that the days of just showing up and leaving with a random girl are gone. Before the economy went to ****, and text messaging became cheap, all I had to do was just show up to a bar and I'd easily leave with a girl.
Now things are a little different. When I say that text messaging is a problem, I don't mean that women are just jumping on their cell phones when a guy approaches them. What I am saying is that cheap text messaging has allowed people to only stick with their group of friends.
For example, when I first started gaming, people pretty much just went to nightclubs with whoever was with them, and that was it. If a friend showed up, a friend showed up. However, it's not like how it is today where people go to nightclubs, and then they text all of their friends so that they can meet-up at the same place and always be connected to each other.
Years ago, if a friend was at another nightclub, they were just at another nightclub. Now, people constantly text their friends to see where they are at, and then they all converge in one nightclub. I know that I have a few female friends that will be out, and almost every time they will text message me to see where I am at, and then we end up meeting up, forming a larger group. And as you know, it is incredibly difficult to penetrate sets that are larger than two, maybe three girls.
About the economy, I guess it depends on where you are, but where I live, I've noticed that nightclubs seem like they are sausagefests almost every time that I go out. And as I said before, I blame this on the economy. When peopel are unemployed or tight on cash, the women tend to stay in, but the men go out anyway, hoping to get sex. Thsi produces wildly disproportianate ratios. Women still go out, just not as often.
I mentioned that I was in three sets that all thoughgt I was attractive. Let me explain what happened in those sets. In the first set, one girl liked me and wanted me to stick around. However, her friend was glued to her cell phone texting. And guess what? After awhile, her friends showed up (mostly guys). As for the girl I was talking to? She followed the group, in spite of the fact that she was the one who wanted to talk to me.
Now on to the second set. In that set, the girls specifically said that my friend wasn't their type, but they liked guys that looked like me. And what happened? A huge group of her friends showed up. You really can't do much in that situation when that hueg group of friends are all guys. Had her friends been women, then I may have been able to game the whole set. And no, I'm not kissing some guys ass to get a girl to talk to me.
And then there was the third set. My friend was originally gaming them when I went over to say something to him. What happened. The girl he was gaming grabbed me, said that I was cute, and I walked away. After he left the set, I went in to see what I could do with it. What happened? The girl had a boyfriend. Can't really blame that on game, but usually, if the boyfriend isn't around, he is a non-factor.
This was the first time in a loooooooooooooong time that I have approached three women and not had a solid set where if I asked for a phone number, I would have felt pretty sure that I would sleep with the girl. This does not happen to me. But then again, it is a non-factor, as I already have a girl.
http://www.realassanova.com/2010/10/is-night-game-really-dead.html
Now things are a little different. When I say that text messaging is a problem, I don't mean that women are just jumping on their cell phones when a guy approaches them. What I am saying is that cheap text messaging has allowed people to only stick with their group of friends.
For example, when I first started gaming, people pretty much just went to nightclubs with whoever was with them, and that was it. If a friend showed up, a friend showed up. However, it's not like how it is today where people go to nightclubs, and then they text all of their friends so that they can meet-up at the same place and always be connected to each other.
Years ago, if a friend was at another nightclub, they were just at another nightclub. Now, people constantly text their friends to see where they are at, and then they all converge in one nightclub. I know that I have a few female friends that will be out, and almost every time they will text message me to see where I am at, and then we end up meeting up, forming a larger group. And as you know, it is incredibly difficult to penetrate sets that are larger than two, maybe three girls.
About the economy, I guess it depends on where you are, but where I live, I've noticed that nightclubs seem like they are sausagefests almost every time that I go out. And as I said before, I blame this on the economy. When peopel are unemployed or tight on cash, the women tend to stay in, but the men go out anyway, hoping to get sex. Thsi produces wildly disproportianate ratios. Women still go out, just not as often.
I mentioned that I was in three sets that all thoughgt I was attractive. Let me explain what happened in those sets. In the first set, one girl liked me and wanted me to stick around. However, her friend was glued to her cell phone texting. And guess what? After awhile, her friends showed up (mostly guys). As for the girl I was talking to? She followed the group, in spite of the fact that she was the one who wanted to talk to me.
Now on to the second set. In that set, the girls specifically said that my friend wasn't their type, but they liked guys that looked like me. And what happened? A huge group of her friends showed up. You really can't do much in that situation when that hueg group of friends are all guys. Had her friends been women, then I may have been able to game the whole set. And no, I'm not kissing some guys ass to get a girl to talk to me.
And then there was the third set. My friend was originally gaming them when I went over to say something to him. What happened. The girl he was gaming grabbed me, said that I was cute, and I walked away. After he left the set, I went in to see what I could do with it. What happened? The girl had a boyfriend. Can't really blame that on game, but usually, if the boyfriend isn't around, he is a non-factor.
This was the first time in a loooooooooooooong time that I have approached three women and not had a solid set where if I asked for a phone number, I would have felt pretty sure that I would sleep with the girl. This does not happen to me. But then again, it is a non-factor, as I already have a girl.
http://www.realassanova.com/2010/10/is-night-game-really-dead.html