Do girls want sex from guys who have girlfriends? Is that the reason they are hit on so much? If you think about it, a girl who has sex with a "taken" guy wont tell anyone.. unless he's aboslutely stupid. Girls don't want to be known as "sluts" they enjoy casual sex, but don't want to with a guy that will go around telling everyone. So do you think girls hit on guys with girlfiends simply for sex, or because their appeal has come up now that they're taken or..? I've noticed that now I have a gf, I get a lot more female attention.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is my thinking illogical or..?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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It could be so. She might be thinking if she can get sex from someone who is taken then it proves to herself that she is attractive.
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NO. tkey "hit" (have SEX) with guys because they are hors!!!!! Simple - very simple!!!!NFC said:
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
You're of course framiler with the phrase "When it rains, it pours." I think this applies many times to after you find yourself with a girlfriend. The cause is likely because you're no longer looking for a companion so alot of the pressure many people have in terms of interacting with the opposite sex have been relived. You now have a companion so you're not really on the hunt anymore. You can go to the bar or club whatever with friends and you're not really looking for a girl to hang out with and it shows. You're relatively calm your smiling having a good time, loose, fun loving, no worries or cares to speak of. Girls can see this on you and are attracted to this because you're not trying too hard to make an impression.
When you talk to girls in this state, you're able to conversate well because you're not focused on getting in her pants, you're just making small talk with some person. Girls are comortable around people like this and this generates intrest and attraction. If one could attain and maintain this state without a girlfriend he'll obviously meet with the same success. This is why we tell people just to go out and have a good time when they're at clubs or bars or lounges instead of focusing so much on how to achieve through strange and sometimes silly tactics and moves while socializing.
When you talk to girls in this state, you're able to conversate well because you're not focused on getting in her pants, you're just making small talk with some person. Girls are comortable around people like this and this generates intrest and attraction. If one could attain and maintain this state without a girlfriend he'll obviously meet with the same success. This is why we tell people just to go out and have a good time when they're at clubs or bars or lounges instead of focusing so much on how to achieve through strange and sometimes silly tactics and moves while socializing.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
That's absolutely right!PRMoon said:
However it's actually not always easy to be in this positive state all the time. I'm a pretty laid back and easy going person overall, whether interacting with females or just random people. But there are times, you would feel the need and be actively on the "hunt", you can't just fake yourself into believing that you are not actively looking. And this would show no matter how well you try to hide it.
That's what I believe as well.Klippymitch said:
However for the woman, it's actually proving to herself that she can get sex from someone who's taken that gets her off, instead of the sexual act itself.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Very well put. A man who isn't acting from desperation of forcing a hook-up is a definite attraction to women.PRMoon said:
