Is my text game solid? Any Thoughts on my situation?

[Les Savy]

Alright, I met this girl in driving school a few weeks ago, I used a typical direct "hey I think you're cute blahblah" and it worked. I got her number and everything. The thing is, she volunteers and goes to do all sort of other things and is kinda too busy for me.

So I've stopped actively pursuing her and just been flirting with her via text every now and then to keep tabs and whatnot.

But recently, I've been tired of not seeing her and decided to step it up a notch.

Me: So, are you madly in love with me yet or should I ask again in a couple of days

Her: Madly in love? Sorry, but you're gonna have to try harder if you want me to be madly in love with you XD

Me: Right so, moderately in love. got it.

Her: XD Keep trying.

Me: I would if I didn't have my hands full. So you're just gonna have to deal with half-assed me.

her: haha what do you have your hands full with?

me: what's it to you?

her: I just wanna know

me: dont worry about it. besides you're too busy for me. it'd never work

her: haha can't keep up

me: is that a challenge? I hope you know, i plan on winning

her: psh..Haha

I'm fairly new at this, so please, feel free to go hard on me.

 

[ARrocket]

Your text game is fine, just don't fall into the trap of texting too often or having conversations through text.

Next time you text her, I highly suggest making plans with this girl. Because really, you can keep texting back and forth forever, and if you don't meet up what's the point?


"What days are you free next week?" Simple and to the point. Meet up, run your game, escalate, win.

 

[Les Savy]

Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I don't usually ask that though. I'm usually just like "pick a day"

and go off from there.

I'm just wondering if I'm saying the right sh!t aha

 

[OamImrsNemo]

Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I don't usually ask that though. I'm usually just like "pick a day"

and go off from there.

I'm just wondering if I'm saying the right sh!t aha

If you say pick a day that makes you sound like an AFC willing to jump through any hoop of fire just to spend time with her.

Where as if you say what days are you free YOU decide when YOU can fit her into YOUR busy lifestyle. Other wise she will see your text game is just a joke.

 

[Huffman]

her: haha what do you have your hands full with?

Am I the only one who sees the awesome pun?

 

[Maxtro]

If you say pick a day that makes you sound like an AFC willing to jump through any hoop of fire just to spend time with her.

Where as if you say what days are you free YOU decide when YOU can fit her into YOUR busy lifestyle. Other wise she will see your text game is just a joke.

That's an interesting point.

Though what do you do when she really is busy? It seems pointless in trying to get her to work with your schedule when she doesn't have time.

Of course she could be lying and using her being busy as an excuse to not get together.

 

[ARrocket]

That's an interesting point.

Though what do you do when she really is busy? It seems pointless in trying to get her to work with your schedule when she doesn't have time.

Of course she could be lying and using her being busy as an excuse to not get together.

If she is interested, she will find time. In the meantime, what you do is game other girls so you don't sit around waiting for the one girl!

 

[Les Savy]

Okay, I set up a meetup for today a couple of days ago. She sent a flake text yesterday because of volunteering, but offered to reschedule the second week of august.

I teased a bit that I might cheat on her, and she popped up a serious note: "I guess i'll just find someone who actually keeps up with me"

...next her?

 

[OamImrsNemo]

Okay, I set up a meetup for today a couple of days ago. She sent a flake text yesterday because of volunteering, but offered to reschedule the second week of august.

I teased a bit that I might cheat on her, and she popped up a serious note: "I guess i'll just find someone who actually keeps up with me"

...next her?

Are you serious? Dude first off by telling her your going to cheat on her your telling her that you want to be in a relationship already which makes you look weak...

Second your telling her your going to cheat on her..I don't see that ****y or Funny especially when her interest in you right now is obviously low judging by the fact she flaked on you...

Save that kind of humor when someone actually has high interest in you or chasing you....

After all this probably not worth trying her too much more if she follows through on this date then congratz. But I highly doubt this..