"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is my text game solid? Any Thoughts on my situation?

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Alright, I met this girl in driving school a few weeks ago, I used a typical direct "hey I think you're cute blahblah" and it worked. I got her number and everything. The thing is, she volunteers and goes to do all sort of other things and is kinda too busy for me.

So I've stopped actively pursuing her and just been flirting with her via text every now and then to keep tabs and whatnot.

But recently, I've been tired of not seeing her and decided to step it up a notch.

Me: So, are you madly in love with me yet or should I ask again in a couple of days

Her: Madly in love? Sorry, but you're gonna have to try harder if you want me to be madly in love with you XD

Me: Right so, moderately in love. got it.

Her: XD Keep trying.

Me: I would if I didn't have my hands full. So you're just gonna have to deal with half-assed me. :p

her: haha what do you have your hands full with?

me: what's it to you?

her: I just wanna know :)

me: dont worry about it. besides you're too busy for me. it'd never work

her: haha can't keep up ;)

me: is that a challenge? I hope you know, i plan on winning :)

her: psh..Haha

I'm fairly new at this, so please, feel free to go hard on me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Your text game is fine, just don't fall into the trap of texting too often or having conversations through text.

Next time you text her, I highly suggest making plans with this girl. Because really, you can keep texting back and forth forever, and if you don't meet up what's the point?


"What days are you free next week?" Simple and to the point. Meet up, run your game, escalate, win.
 
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Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I don't usually ask that though. I'm usually just like "pick a day"

and go off from there.

I'm just wondering if I'm saying the right sh!t aha
 
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Les Savy said:
Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I don't usually ask that though. I'm usually just like "pick a day"

and go off from there.

I'm just wondering if I'm saying the right sh!t aha
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If you say pick a day that makes you sound like an AFC willing to jump through any hoop of fire just to spend time with her.

Where as if you say what days are you free YOU decide when YOU can fit her into YOUR busy lifestyle. Other wise she will see your text game is just a joke.
 
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Les Savy said:
her: haha what do you have your hands full with?
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Am I the only one who sees the awesome pun? :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OamImrsNemo said:
If you say pick a day that makes you sound like an AFC willing to jump through any hoop of fire just to spend time with her.

Where as if you say what days are you free YOU decide when YOU can fit her into YOUR busy lifestyle. Other wise she will see your text game is just a joke.
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That's an interesting point.

Though what do you do when she really is busy? It seems pointless in trying to get her to work with your schedule when she doesn't have time.

Of course she could be lying and using her being busy as an excuse to not get together.
 
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Maxtro said:
That's an interesting point.

Though what do you do when she really is busy? It seems pointless in trying to get her to work with your schedule when she doesn't have time.

Of course she could be lying and using her being busy as an excuse to not get together.
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If she is interested, she will find time. In the meantime, what you do is game other girls so you don't sit around waiting for the one girl!
 
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Okay, I set up a meetup for today a couple of days ago. She sent a flake text yesterday because of volunteering, but offered to reschedule the second week of august.

I teased a bit that I might cheat on her, and she popped up a serious note: "I guess i'll just find someone who actually keeps up with me"

...next her?
 
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Les Savy said:
Okay, I set up a meetup for today a couple of days ago. She sent a flake text yesterday because of volunteering, but offered to reschedule the second week of august.

I teased a bit that I might cheat on her, and she popped up a serious note: "I guess i'll just find someone who actually keeps up with me"

...next her?
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Are you serious? Dude first off by telling her your going to cheat on her your telling her that you want to be in a relationship already which makes you look weak...

Second your telling her your going to cheat on her..I don't see that ****y or Funny especially when her interest in you right now is obviously low judging by the fact she flaked on you...

Save that kind of humor when someone actually has high interest in you or chasing you....

After all this probably not worth trying her too much more if she follows through on this date then congratz. But I highly doubt this..
 
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