"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is my problem that "I'm putting ***** on pedestal"??

Von

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631 threads and yet no girl... loser ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm mr responsible and straight edge - outside of maybe drinking once a week. I live a pretty disciplined and healthy lifestyle
we have got where you are coming from day 1, however this will be difficult to find in the places you are hanging around

and the 7 you find will think shes a 10 due to the attention she gets already

then like i have explained she will **** test you to the max this is not disrespecting you this a test to knock you off your masculine core

your foundations will be rocked in your current state of mind and you will be dumped

so not only is your bird gonna be difficult to find(99% of women outdrink men these days so theres your first probs)

when you do find her shes gonna dump you within a fortnight

this is why we are advising you to date some B's for a while, but you just dont seem to get it
 

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we have got where you are coming from day 1, however this will be difficult to find in the places you are hanging around

and the 7 you find will think shes a 10 due to the attention she gets already

then like i have explained she will **** test you to the max this is not disrespecting you this a test to knock you off your masculine core

your foundations will be rocked in your current state of mind and you will be dumped

so not only is your bird gonna be difficult to find(99% of women outdrink men these days so theres your first probs)

when you do find her shes gonna dump you within a fortnight

this is why we are advising you to date some B's for a while, but you just dont seem to get it
I handle myself very well. I'm not worried about this **** test nonsense

I'm not needy or clingy, I don't tolerate any nonsense. I have strong self respect
 

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I'm not needy or clingy, I don't tolerate any nonsense. I have strong self respect
your as insecure as they come what dillusional world do you live in?

insecure people are needy and clingy you just havent been put to the sword yet

FFS man were commenting on a thread entitled "you pedastalling the woman"

you have habits that you dont even realise you probably do this is why we are trying to teach you

what do you think is going to happen when this said woman comes along answer me this question directly come on no politician answers?????????
 
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