"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is my plan for having a girlfriend stupid?

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So imagine his attitude. He hasnt been laid in 18 months due to his unearned pretentiousness and snobbiness. Women already think men who havent been laid look "creepy".

This is a man who turns down his nose and disgust at women on the regular cause they might a attractive hard working woman with one child. Or it might be an extremely well built lady who happens to be a couple years older than him.

He calls these garbage in utter contempt. Women who want to be kind to him.

Hes chasing networked and socialized "hot babes" who dont veer off from the politics of their group.

Imagine the perfectionist snobbish stench that must emenate from him, and the frustrations and pain of 18 months sexless on top of it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So imagine his attitude. He hasnt been laid in 18 months due to his unearned pretentiousness and snobbiness. Women already think men who havent been laid look "creepy".

This is a man who turns down his nose and disgust at women on the regular cause they might a attractive hard working woman with one child. Or it might be an extremely well built lady who happens to be a couple years older than him.

He calls these garbage in utter contempt. Women who want to be kind to him.

Hes chasing networked and socialized "hot babes" who dont veer off from the politics of their group.

Imagine the perfectionist snobbish stench that must emenate from him, and the frustrations and pain of 18 months sexless on top of it.
woman with child should never be dated, don't matter what you belive, you can have your fun if is a easy lay, nothing else, only think I can think dating a woman with a child would be okish is if you have yours too, if not move on, waste of time.

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I didn't ask if you have a fantastic life, I said you to live your life, saying you do that all just for doing it is empty, bring nothing to you, and you know that hence the desperate act, you are not happy with yourself and belive then with a woman you will be happy and with a purpose, that is a dangerous thing for you, no a woman will not make you happy, will jsut add more trouble and annoyance in your life, woman yes get happier with a guy becasue she will get protection, attencion, and someone crazy enough to deal with her, woman can't be alone
 

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woman with child should never be dated, don't matter what you belive, you can have your fun if is a easy lay, nothing else, only think I can think dating a woman with a child would be okish is if you have yours too, if not move on, waste of time.

@bigdave17

I didn't ask if you have a fantastic life, I said you to live your life, saying you do that all just for doing it is empty, bring nothing to you, and you know that hence the desperate act, you are not happy with yourself and belive then with a woman you will be happy and with a purpose, that is a dangerous thing for you, no a woman will not make you happy, will jsut add more trouble and annoyance in your life, woman yes get happier with a guy becasue she will get protection, attencion, and someone crazy enough to deal with her, woman can't be alone
A woman with a child is fine as a plate. Theyre not going to want you around their child anyway for a long time.

Theres several advantages:

1. She doesnt have time to waste due to ha ing a kid. So less games and straight to the point.
2. She needs a sex provider and occasional companion. She doesnt have as much time to waste so wont flake out as much or run as many games.

She just needs someone for pleasure and fun with her limited time.
 

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Your criteria so specific, your expectations so great, and your desperation levels are so high, that even if you find a gf you'll fear losing her so much that it'll probably back fire and your heart will be crushed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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