Is my plan for having a girlfriend stupid?

[bigdave17]

I want to meet someone for a serious relationship. When they start living with me, I plan on paying for everything (I don't really have much expenses, everything is paid for. By the time the woman moves in with me, my house will be paid for also). I'm very big on managing finances properly and being frugal so hopefully, her having zero expenses living with me, she can pay off all the debt she has quickly and start saving money also


Would most women nowadays appreciate this kind of arrangement or take it for granted? I know I need to be very very careful to date somebody who is an awesome person and who is not a leech or a parasite who will take advantage of my tremendous generosity. My friend thinks I'm crazy that when I date somebody, we should be splitting expenses but i'm old school Armenian dude. My dad took care of finances growing up and my mom took care of the house. I would want a slightly modified version of that - I would want a woman who makes a decent income and we can still both help around the house (her doing more of course cause I work crazy ass hours)


Surely, the entire female gender would love a dating situation like this right?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Troll

Yeah we need to respect it as such. Also we need to respect our time more.

 

[RedScorpion]

I'm not going to write much, but you're clearly jumping from 0 to 60 on this. Try finding a woman you enjoy being with, you find attractive enough to ****, and just start spending more and more time with her. Focus on the having fun part (which doesn't necessarily focus on sex either, it's just a part of it). You are dreaming about things half a year to a years time frame from meeting someone. Nobody should be thinking about finances and living situation this early.

I'll add, stop trying to find the perfect woman and nix yourself of the opportunity for one reason or another. She's attractive, you're having fun with her - push forward with it. If you're not feeling it later, you're allowed to break up with people.

 

[spinich]

Not to worry. You will never find a woman ( or man?) that is good enough for your delusional state. So the issue is mute.

 

[bigdave17]

Not to worry. You will never find a woman ( or man?) that is good enough for your delusional state. So the issue is mute.

If I lived near an Armenian community, I could find somebody in a heartbeat. Armenian women are exactly what I want - beautiful, christian, never have kids until their married, always have nice ass and tits, beautiful hair and skin, usually big into family values, usually are good housewives

It's so frustrating

You understand my standards are basically me just wanting the female version of myself right?

 

[Dingo]

If I lived near an Armenian community, I could find somebody in a heartbeat. Armenian women are exactly what I want - beautiful, christian, never have kids until their married, always have nice ass and tits, beautiful hair and skin, usually big into family values, usually are good housewives

It's so frustrating

You understand my standards are basically me just wanting the female version of myself right?

Move to Armenia.... please....

 

[spinich]

Too bad your a draft dodger from your home country or I suspect a "Go fund me" page would be started by the collective forum to send you back to your land of perfect women.

 

[Murk]

Yeah we need to respect it as such. Also we need to respect our time more.

One hundred percent, let's stop giving this guy the time of day, troll or not, it's useless

 

[bigdave17]

Move to Armenia.... please....

let me get right on that, that's a fantastic idea

Let me drop my near 200K income in a cheap but very nice area, nearly paid off house, fancy car, great friends and family to go live in a third world country where I might make 200 dollars a month if I'm lucky

 

[bigdave17]

Too bad your a draft dodger from your home country or I suspect a "Go fund me" page would be started by the collective forum to send you back to your land of perfect women.

it's not that they're perfect persay, it's just my type


to a lot of guys, a perfect woman might be a pale 5'10 blondie. To me, it's a black haired, thick 5'4 chick with a fatass

 

[soulforge]

I op out.. TROLL

 

[Fzatf]

Why not import one of these gals from Armenia?

 

[bigdave17]

Why not import one of these gals from Armenia?

I'm looking into it but its difficult. You basically have to marry without knowing the person much

 

[MatureDJ]

I want to meet someone for a serious relationship. When they start living with me, I plan on paying for everything.

Why don't you find a hoar to marry, and you could pay her as per services rendered. It worked for Richard Gere.

 

[bigdave17]

Why don't you find a hoar to marry, and you could pay her as per services rendered. It worked for Richard Gere.

lol

that's something I'm very concerned about - a woman who takes my generosity for granted

 

[17 shots]

lol

that's something I'm very concerned about - a woman who takes my generosity for granted

All women take generosity for granted

 

[Alvafe]

problems I see, you make a plan to have a ltr, with you shouldn't, it should happen, what you should be doing is going out dating who you like, too desperate, it shows a lot, even when you think you are not, remember what people says you find the thing you wanted when you was not looking, same apply here.

if you really are having 200k income year you should be living your life not hoping to waste it all on woman

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sniper approach is not effective. Even AMS said a puzzy drought would fvck his game up and must be avoided..

Just penetrate one in the group. Shell be decently attractive but not the hottest one in the group. Target one where her friends get more attention. Thatll get you proofed.

 

[bigdave17]

problems I see, you make a plan to have a ltr, with you shouldn't, it should happen, what you should be doing is going out dating who you like, too desperate, it shows a lot, even when you think you are not, remember what people says you find the thing you wanted when you was not looking, same apply here.

if you really are having 200k income year you should be living your life not hoping to waste it all on woman

I have a fantastic life

I vacation constantly
I buy, eat, drink, whatever i want. Wear whatever I want
Go to the best bars, clubs, restaurants, concerts, sports events, festivals, etc....

I'm just tired of doing it all by myself. I would love to have a great girlfriend to do all this with

 

[Murk]

I have a fantastic life

I vacation constantly
I buy, eat, drink, whatever i want. Wear whatever I want
Go to the best bars, clubs, restaurants, concerts, sports events, festivals, etc....

I'm just tired of doing it all by myself. I would love to have a great girlfriend to do all this with

But all your stories are "me and this 10/10 russian guy went to a bar to hit on chicks made 20 approaches each and got no play despite being the best looking, best dressed and richest guys there.

You are either a liar or mentally ill - either way you're fvcked. That's why you have no women, because you are either delusional or have mental illness. I don't give a **** if you make 200k an hour, you are seriously not well. The threads you make, even a troll wouldn't be this dedicated so I'm leaning towards mental illness which is what I've always said about you. Go see a therapist dave.