"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is my home gym enough to get toned? PT worth the cash.

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Here is the equipment I have basically at home, well images of it to give you an idea what I have. Do I need more fancy equipment? I'm not trying to get ripped like Zac Efron, but want to get my stomach toned and a little muscle. Note, I'm not fat! I'm slim! but I want some lean muscle and tighter abs.

Was also wondering when I have more cash next year to blow should I hire a personal trainer? A Tyrone lite at my work who's a gym freak, but lean muscle thinks they're a waste. He tells me most of the stuff you can just get off of youtube. He thinks the PT doesn't give you the full potential and secrets because they want to keep making money off you. Also, have a set of btoo.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A old Navy buddy of mine is a SEAL. He told me a long time ago, #1 thing is to drink water all the time. No milk, soda, juice, energy drinks, etc. Water only.

You're skinny asf, so you need to be all about surf and turf. Ribeye, NY strip, salmon, shrimp. Potatoes are also great.

From a veggie standpoint, you need to 'eat the rainbow.' Carrots, red cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli are a good place to start.
 

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A old Navy buddy of mine is a SEAL. He told me a long time ago, #1 thing is to drink water all the time. No milk, soda, juice, energy drinks, etc. Water only.

You're skinny asf, so you need to be all about surf and turf. Ribeye, NY strip, salmon, shrimp. Potatoes are also great.

From a veggie standpoint, you need to 'eat the rainbow.' Carrots, red cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli are a good place to start.
Tyrone lite and former Chad (59 yr old but still fit) told me having to eat good too! The downside is your grocery bill goes up though. Former Chad also never eats out hardly, hardly eats any greasy, fried foods and never drinks beer.

I was fat when I was like 22. Not obese but looked like Kyle Rittenhouse. Husky side. I used to drink a lot of soda and beer at that time. One summer I quit drinking soda except maybe once a week. I must have lost about 18lbs over a couple months without exercising.
 

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Tyrone lite and former Chad (59 yr old but still fit) told me having to eat good too! The downside is your grocery bill goes up though. Former Chad also never eats out hardly, hardly eats any greasy, fried foods and never drinks beer.

I was fat when I was like 22. Not obese but looked like Kyle Rittenhouse. Husky side. I used to drink a lot of soda and beer at that time. One summer I quit drinking soda except maybe once a week. I must have lost about 18lbs over a couple months without exercising.
You don't need to lose weight. You need to hit the weights, while eating a fairly high protein, high carb diet.

Doing a bunch of cardio on its own is pretty useless.

I doubt you'll take action on anything I suggested, but good luck in whatever you do.
 

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You don't need to lose weight. You need to hit the weights, while eating a fairly high protein, high carb diet.

Doing a bunch of cardio on its own is pretty useless.

I doubt you'll take action on anything I suggested, but good luck in whatever you do.
I thought you should mix cardio in as well?

I guess a better example would be NHL players. They're trim muscle, many of them but they're doing tons of cardio not only during games but also in practice and riding the bikes and such.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I thought you should mix cardio in as well?

I guess a better example would be NHL players. They're trim muscle, many of them but they're doing tons of cardio not only during games but also in practice and riding the bikes and such.
Read what I wrote, just one more time.

I said that stand alone cardio is pretty useless.

If you practice HIIT during your weights, it will also double as some cardio, since your heartrate will never drop below a certain level during the lift session.
 

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@biggoal , The Forum covered your home gym and ab roller topics in Jan. & Mar. 2020 in your 259 & 31 post threads. I suggest you use the forum search feature and reread them. Posting an identical type of thread now looks like attention troll behavior and you don’t want that.



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